WO Magazine Spring 2016 | Page 35

BY: KATHRYN KORCHOK Dr. Ana Lara, naturopathic physician and team member of White oaks’ Lifestyle Medicine & Sports Injuries Clinic, believes our current lifestyle has contributed to the decline of play among children. Today, we are ruled by electronics and schedules. Television, computers, video games, tablets, phones - we are never without our devices. even toddlers who are out for dinner with their parents are given iPads to distract them. It’s not that kids aren’t busy. They are - with piano lessons, painting classes, swimming lessons, soccer practices, computer club, and karate. Kids are often over-scheduled with activities, lessons and clubs. They’re super-stimulated by media, driven to and from school, and squeezed into time slots that parents juggle with their own work schedules and meetings. helicopter parenting is the norm, and parents’ competitiveness for their children to be the best, do the best, and achieve the best, may be doing more harm than good. But play is important. Free, physically active, unsupervised play. “That, to me, is key,” says Dr. Lara. “It helps with kids’ development emotionally, socially and intellectually. They’re testing the waters and they’re creating their own worlds when they get to play. They run their own world by their rules, on their time, with their imagination and their creativity. And when we place structure on that, I think it thwarts what they’re capable of.” Dr. Lara believes parents should not impose their own agendas on children’s playtime, that it should be “free range.” “It’s key for parents to remember what it’s like to be a child,” says Dr. Lara, who has prescribed play in her practice. She says parents are also worried about safety, from street traffic to stranger danger, from the fear of abduction to physical injury. That excessive worry, or “fear-based parenting,” is doing more harm than good, and she sees more children suffering from apprehension, anxiety and depression. WhITe oAKS ADVISoRY BoARD ”Children are wise, and we have to trust that they do come equipped to develop their own way of analyzing and integrating into the world. Having to come up with their own solutions is a beautiful experience, because that’s laying the foundations for their own problem-solving and independence.” DR. ANA LARA The physical and mental health benefits of physically active play are well-documented, according to Dr. Lauren McNamara, Director of Research and Development in the Faculty of Child and Youth Studies at Brock University, and founder of the Recess Project (see sidebar). She says play helps to reduce stress, boosts circulation, enhances wellbeing, stimulates neurological activity, increases energy, builds muscles and bones, increases flexibility and ultimately helps prevent disease and obesity. Play helps lay the foundation for a healthy lifestyle throughout all phases of life. Playful interactions with peers provide opportunities to develop and maintain positive relationships and friendships that shape and improve social and emotional skills. “The best kind of play, in my opinion, is the kind where children feel accepted and completely at ease with each other so that it just flows,” says Dr. McNamara. “To be silly, imaginative, playful, active, joyful, creative, and a bit risky – that’s play.” But it’s that perceived risk that has contributed to a decline in play. Parents, teachers and school administrators have become so risk-averse that playgrounds have become battlegrounds, and the losers are kids. Recess and physical education have declined, while academic pressure to succeed, competition to get into good schools and the need for extracurriculars on resumes has increased. Ironically, kids do better in school and achieve more academic success when they’re allowed to play and experience a physical, active lifestyle. Sadly, only five percent of kids meet the Canadian Physical Activity Guidelines of 60 minutes of physical activity every day. According to Participaction, 63 percent of Canadian kids’ free time after school and on weekends is spent being sedentary. Its latest report card on physical activity for children and youth notes that 62 percent of Canadian parents say their kids are always driven to and from school (by car or bus). Canadian kids aged three and four spend 5.8 hours a day being sedentary; ages five through eleven spend 7.6 hours; and ages 12-17 spend 9.3 hours. spring 2016 | wo magazine | 33