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Quality Time – It is easy
to get wrapped up in the
busyness of back to school
schedules. Try to plan din-
ners together or have a
family game night. It is im-
portant to stay connected
and catch up on each oth-
er’s day.
Rules – Remind everyone
of the school year rules.
Reestablish bedtimes, dis-
cuss the when, where, and
how long for electronics
use and what happens when
mom and dad are not home.
Social Media – Reconfirm
what social media sites
your child belongs to and
check all passwords.
Take time to talk - Open
your schedule each day and
let your kids know when
it is a good time to come
to you with problems and
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concerns. You will get
more out of the discussion
if you are both tuned in.
Use their time wisely – As
our kids get older, their
commitments
increase.
Teach your child to use his
time wisely by prioritizing
so he will not be up at mid-
night doing homework.
Volunteer – It is a great
way to see what goes on at
school, meet the teachers,
and interact with the oth-
er parents. Even working
parents can get involved
by helping at evening and
weekend events.
Workspace – Establish
where your child will do
his homework. Is the kitch-
en table too distracting?
Does he have a desk in
his room? Choose a space
that is quiet and has all the
X
Y
Z
tools he needs.
Xtra Help – Get a jump
start on finding a tutor for
your child. If she struggles
in a subject, look for some-
one who can keep her on
track this year.
Year of…. – Help your
child set achievable goals
this year. Make this the
year of straight A’s, perfect
attendance, or lead in the
school play.
Zzzzzzs – Time to return to
the school night bedtimes.
It is hard to adjust to wak-
ing up early again so adjust
it a little at a time. Listen
to your body and go to bed
earlier if you need it.
Pam Molnar is a freelance writer and
mother of three. This is her 16th new
school year as a parent.
September 2018 WNY Family 9