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BAPTIST MANOR COMFORTABLE AFFORDABLE LIVING FOR SENIORS IN BUFFALO • Newly Renovated Apartments • On-Site Beauty Salon • Free Wi-Fi • Free on-site parking • Protected by Security System 881-1120 276 Linwood Ave. www.baptist-manor.org “ Embrace seasons past… Begin life anew.” Aging in Place: Growing Old at Home “The stairs are getting so hard to climb.” “Since my wife died, I just open a can of soup for dinner.” “I’ve lived here 40 years. No other place will seem like home.” Assisted Living Community 410 Mill Street ~ Williamsville 716.632.3000 www.park-creek.com T hese are common issues for older people. You may share the often-heard wish — “I want to stay in my own home!” The good news is that with the right help, your parent might be able to do just that. Staying in your own home as you get older is called “aging in place.” Planning Ahead to Stay in One’s Own Home Planning ahead is hard because you never know how a person’s needs might change due to health issues, and every- one’s family situation is different. ~ Three home-cooked meals ~ Stimulating social, educational & recreational activities ~ Personalized care & medication management ~ Affordable Memory Care Program ~ Now Offering Enhanced Care 28 WNY Family March 2020 If you have a large extended fam- ily living nearby and willing to help, it will provide your parent with a sizeable “safety net” as they begin to need more help with their daily activities. If you live far away from your parent, and he or she lives alone, with few friends or neighbors, planning for outside help is almost a given, unless you can convince your parent to relocate closer to you. Perhaps the best way to stay in one’s own home is to take action before the ab- solute need arises, making the home safe and easily navigable on the inside, and finding services that can help your parent navigate the world outside more easily. Here are a few things you can work on gradually to help your parent do just that: • De-clutter and rearrange the con- tents of cabinets, drawers, and closets to make everything easier to access. Put frequently used items within easy reach. Replace heavy dishes, pots and pans with lighter versions. Add items like ex- tended-reach grabbers, jar-lid openers, a shower bench, a higher toilet, and grab bars in the shower. • Every year, 1 in 4 adults over age 65 take a fall. Remove throw rugs and repair any other trip hazards like loose carpeting or raised areas of flooring. Keep steps clear. Make sure that all entry doors to the house and garage have prop- erly working, easy to turn locks, and that all steps and porches have railings that are secure. And have a diplomatic chat with your parent about their footwear; it’s time to get rid of loose, floppy slip- pers, shoes with slippery soles, or those with heels to high too walk safely. • Discuss whether there is a room on the first floor that could be turned into a bedroom if needed.