the hamper; change into that outfit that puts a sizzle in your step and a twinkle in your lover’ s eye. Enjoy the gender the Lord gave you.
Not only do you want your appearance to be above criticism but your speech as well. Sexually suggestive conversations can lead down a road of unrighteous imagination. You know what I’ m talking about … the two possible comments that follow someone’ s statement. One is the innocent comment and the other one has an“ off color” sexual slant. You may be tempted to choose the sexual comment because you think it makes you look“ clever” or a little“ naughty.” My advice is,“ Keep your mind out of the gutter.” Get a laugh from jokes that are witty and clean. Proverbs 27:11“ He who loves a pure heart and whose speech is gracious will have the king for a friend.” Proverbs 18:21“ Death and life are in the power of the tongue, those who make it a friend shall eats it’ s fruit.” Matthew 15:11“ What goes into a man’ s mouth does not make him“ unclean,” but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him“ unclean.”
Sadly enough, the“ sex sells” attitude has crept into the Christian music world. In many cases, to get signed to a record label, marketing managers now require the artist to have“ sex appeal.” Can we not, as Christians, set a higher standard? A standard that is moral not sexual; one that promotes the attitude of Jesus and a lifestyle of holiness; one that delights our soul instead of our“ fleshly” senses?
Here are some clear fashion guidelines that have proven to work well in most settings.
1. Necklines should not expose cleavage.
2. No tight-fitting clothes or see through fabrics. Keep in mind that thin“ clingy” fabrics are less“ forgiving” than heavier ones.( your physical shape is accentuated with bright lighting; opt for a jacket if necessary)
3. In casual settings, skirts should not be more than 1-2 inches above the knee. For the platform, skirts should be at least to the knee. Remember, most platforms are elevated which makes the length of a skirt appear shorter from the audience level. Make sure when you are seated that the skirt is designed to give adequate coverage. Be stylish but not suggestive.
4. No exposed midriffs. Bare midriffs give the suggestion of nudity. If you are on a worship team and one who raises your hands in worship, give that outfit a trial run at home in front of the mirror before you leave to make sure that when you are worshipping your tummy is not showing.
5. Ladies, make sure if you get a“ chill” or a“ hormonal surge” you are the only one who knows about it. Shirts that are dark in color or patterned fabrics make a great camouflage.
6. In leadership, short sleeves are acceptable for warm events, however, longer sleeves give a“ classier” look. Save the sleeveless shirts for casual settings.
Many times, before I leave the house, I ask my husband“ Does this outfit look OK?” I not only represent myself, but I represent him as well. If you don’ t have someone to help you with your fashion decisions, ask the Lord. He will tell you. I even take Him shopping with me. He’ s a good shopper and He instructs me on what to buy.
I attended one of the most beautiful funerals one time. I know, it doesn’ t seem like“ beautiful” and“ funeral” should be in the same sentence, however this was an exception. One of our friends lost his 16-year-old daughter in a tragic car accident. We knew her well. Not only had we spent time in their home, but we would also see her occasionally working part time in her Dad’ s office. She was stunning! In fact, we would often tease her Dad about,“ Needing to get out the shotgun to keep the boys away.” She was as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside. I was keenly aware of her genuine love for people. She was always quick to give a warm hug or ask,“ How are you?” And she really wanted to know.
There were over 2,000 people gathered at her funeral. I have never experienced such intense emotions. Why was she so loved? Because she loved so much. I was amazed at the depth of character in such a young person. The thing that impressed me most about her life was that she exemplified the word“ Halal.” Halal means: praise that comes naturally to those who radiate the presence and character of Christ. This radiance can only happen as a direct result from an intimate relationship with the Lord. Even her fashion choices reflected parental care and guidance. They were always“ trendy” but appropriate.
Since we do not live in a perfect world, we have some choices to make. Every billboard, magazine, TV show and movie suggests that everyone worships the“ goddess” of sexuality. Christians must rise to a higher standard of living. If we don’ t, we are no different from the animal kingdom. Their sexual instincts are merely to propagate. God’ s design for us is a free will and sacred choice.
To keep our hearts pure, we must choose our focus. When temptations come, will we discipline our eyes to look away or take the journey of unclean fantasy? Psalm 101:3“ I will set before my eyes no vile thing.” The definition of vile is: cheap, worthless, attributing no value to a person other than a fleeting moment of selfish pleasure.
As you desire to become more like Jesus, allow Him to complete the transformation. Let your heart, your tongue, your appearance and conduct reflect the purity of Jesus. When others speak your name, may it be with honor and high regard. A respectful reputation will never be forgotten. It will be your crown and legacy. Proverbs 22:1“ A good name is more to be desired than great wealth, and to be respected better than silver or gold.”
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