RELATIONSHIP
Tip 3 - Be Good To
Each Other
Being good to each other
initially is easy but continuing
to be good to each other takes
the biggest place in making
your relationship last. It is the
basic things such as trusting
each other, showing your true
selves, being kind, being each
other’s backbone, protecting
each other and prioritizing your
relationship over ego issues.
Your relationship will last only
if you know how to take care of
all these aspects.
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Tip 4 - Never Push Your
Partner To Change For
You
Tip 5 - Keep Away
From Insulting/
Criticizing Your Partner
Asking for love and time from
your partner is understandable,
you deserve it. Asking from
your partner his/her originality
is too much. Never pressurize
your partner to change for you
and you do not have to change
for him/her. When our fingers are not
equal how is it right to
expect our partners to be
just like us. We all have our
odd charateristics and we
can get annoying for our
partners. Always remember
that you should protect and
never criticize your partner
when there is a third person
around.
You have not truly loved the
person if you are asking for it.
Put yourself in your partner’s
shoes. Someday if your parents
would expect you to change
and only then be happy with
you, how would it feel? The
same way your partner would
feel and if the happiness of a
relationship is by dependent
on control or such a huge
expectation. It will never last
long. It is painful and humiliating
and this will not just cause
a rift in the relationship
but your partner might feel
disgusted to be with you.
For all you know, even your
partner may be dislikes
something about you and
has never been vocal about
it. Therefore, if you want
your relationship to last, you
vent out and speak to your
partner in a closed door.
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Tip 6 - Do Not Be The
Immature One
Arguing over valid situations
is understood, arguing and
fighting over silly things is
still understood. However, if
you are holding on to fights
and arguments then you are
runining things. Always let
go of unpleasant situations
and move on. Do not be the
petty one! As you want your
relationship to last, you must
grow and learn how to tackle
these problems.
Tip 7 - Giving Freedom Is
Basic
Just because you are in a
relationship it does not mean
that your partner is caged or
has to agree to your decisions.
It is wrong to suffocate your
partner by intruding in his/
her personal space. Since
you have enough faith in your