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LIFE STYLE STYLE: 1 - In the process of listening you end up learning. 2 - It improves your quality of patience. 3 - Appreciation comes to you for listening patiently. 4 - Indirectly you might find an answer to one of your questions you never asked. 5 - Good listening skills is a bonus point for you in your professional life. 6 70 - You will be loved by all. 7 - Your mind will open to new ideas. 8 - There can be a shift in your perceptions 9 - When your perceptions change, your thought process improves. 10 - You will know exactly what the opposite person wants. 11 - You will be able to solve problems constructively. Tip No 1 - Reduce Talking If not talking is as good as WWW.WISHESH.NET | NOVEMBER 2019 observing a fast, it is still okay, this is how you have to begin. The lesser you talk, the more you have the time to listen, isn’t it logical? It could be tough to reverse your nature of being noisy to getting silent, however, it is a major step that will help you reach your goal of being a good listener. Tip No 2 - Avoid Interrupting A Conversation Every person has a different pace of talking. You cannot estimate how long will a person take to complete his/ her sentence. Therefore, speak only when a person has finished. When you interrupt in between a conversation, the speaker can get deviated and there are chances of you getting mislead and making your own assumptions.