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5. Help them quiet
their negative self-
talk:
The raising of an optimistic
child get easy with this tips
you will follow. Like adults
kids also, have an inner-critic
whose voice can be quite
loud at times. The movement
of times you hear your child
say, “This is too hard for me”
or “I’m too dumb” and so on
other statements . Left with
unchecked, these negative
statements can take hold in
your kid’s psyche and they will
start believing it. Try to ward
this off early by helping your
kids to confront their negative
self talk. Start with empathizing
them and let them know that
you understand what they’re
feeling and teach them to
externalize those thoughts
and beliefs.Make sure you too
help your kids to learn how to
replace the negative self-talk
with positive statements or
thoughts.encourage your kids
to say something like “ it might
be hard now, but I’ll give it
another shot tomorrow”.
6. Teach them to
put things into
perspective:
Bad things happen with course
of time and that’s how life
is. It just the matter of our
attitude and how we react to
what happens to us make all
that the difference. Teaching
this to your kids and helping
them to adopt the optimistic
thinking will elevates your
kids from the phase of victims
to victors. While performing
this tips the parents should
be careful not to sugarcoat
things or ignore the facts in a
misguided attempt at “positive
thinking” or being optimistic.
This tips will definitively help
you to raise an optimistic kids
as the kids will become more
perfection in dealing with
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