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Seeing the glass as half full or having the conviction that things will eventually work out in a cornerstone of resilience and will be an absolute asset in achieving any kind of success in your kids life. When life gets tough and difficult you want your children to hang on, pull themselves together and always keep going. Instead of giving up, the parents should make the needs to believe that things can get better and work towards that to their kids. Research tells us that encouraging optimism in our kids comes with numerous benefits taking-responsibility- for-your-own-well-being/ , That gives a greater sense of relief and satisfaction in life, as well as a better ability to cope with the stresses of life. let’s be honest in raising an optimistic child which will improves their chances of having a healthy and protected social life. In this article we will focus on the way or tips to raise an optimistic child. Here are some of the valuable tips that develop a sunny outlook on life for your children: 1. Model optimism: Are you keep on saying things like “Everything always goes wrong” or “We never have enough money”? If such then please stop it. If you always try to focus on the negative thoughts for your child activity or behaviour then it will be classic pessimistic trait. Even if these views, behaviour, and attitudes are communicated to your child,then they will more likely to develop same traits again and again as they always watching and listening to you. Try not to complain and gripe to your kids. If you really want to help your kids to become more upbeat then start by having a brighter outlook of yourself and be a model of optimism. 2. Foster an attitude of gratitude in your kids: With the above point this has also an butterfly effect in developing an optimistic child .One of the basic tips that can help your kids to become more optimistic by foster an attitude of making gratitude a habit in your home. To start with encourage everyone in family daily to share one good thing that happened or that they were grateful for, to your kids . This will show them a clear picture of naturally looking for the silver lining in every experience yo share with them. With course of time as your kids grow older the habit will come naturally to them and they’ll lead a happier, healthier lives. This will enache their positive optimistic attitude. 3. Allow them to experience success and take reasonable risks: NOVEMBER 2018 | WWW.WISHESH.NET