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Sign - When a person treats you like a fling, it wouldn’t matter to them to know what you want from life or your views on things. For them, you are just a need of the hour. Sign No 9 - He/She Shows You The Worst Moodswings We all experience mood swings and we have our outlet to them as well, when it comes to a person we love, we never burst those unstable moods and disturb them. All we do is keep it within us and find healthy ways to get a hold of ourselves. Sign - When a person is extremely enough for the person to just talk without understanding you. You become a priority and everything that is in your mind is all they want to know. Sign - When a person treats you like a fling, he/she will not bother to understand you, they will just talk what comes to their mind without even bothering to understand if you are happy about the conversation, their talks are artificial and you will never feel the connection. Sign No 8 - He/She Never Takes Interest in Spending Time When a person is serious about leading a life with you, he/she will talk about personal and professional goals and be happy to know what yours as well. There is a difference when a person is with you and when a person is with you and is interested in knowing you better, a person who is interested in knowing you genuinely will always talk about how the two of you can grow together. friendly and then becomes rude based on how they feel instead of understanding that they need to treat you well irrespective of how they feel, you should know that you are just an instrument to their needs. Final Word A person will not keep assuming things until they are given a chance to, right? It is the signs that indicate to you about your partner’s confusing behavior. The next approach to get clarity to all the observations you made is to talk to the person directly and still be mindful about what he/she is saying vs what he/she is doing. In any case, in a serious discussion like this, if the person is ignoring you, you need to be smart and understand that you have to move on in life, as there is no point being stuck in a place where you are merely being used and not loved, as you don’t deserve being treated as a fling. DECEMBER 2019 | WWW.WISHESH.NET