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FACING THE PROSPECTS OF DIVORCE OR SEPARATION ? DID YOUR RELATIONSHIP SUFFER IN LOCKDOWN ?
by Chris Sweetman and Peter Marples of Fair Result , a team of specialist divorce lawyers offering a new approach to achieve a fairer result for clients .
The more you plan at this stage the easier the journey will be . So , think about these things to help you focus going forward .
1 . What caused the relationship to come to an end ? 2 . What are your biggest fears going forward ? 3 . What arrangements will be best for any children ? 4 . What would you want the outcome to be in terms of dividing the assets ? The court are likely to look at a clean fair break and 50 / 50 split . 5 . Where will everyone live ? 6 . What support will be needed with the children or finances . Does any party need special assistance ?
7 . Where did the matrimonial assets come from , have any come from before you met , are there any family gifts or inheritance to be considered ?
8 . Likely costs - What are these likely to be and where is the money to cover this coming from ?
And here are some areas just to bear in mind .
• Do not speak to anyone other than someone who can be trusted implicitly about the steps you are taking .
• Do not talk to someone who has gone through a divorce about what will happen . They cannot advise you . Their anecdotal view will be based on their personal circumstances and factors relevant in their case . Everyone ’ s breakdown is totally unique and this presents a unique set of issues . Get independent professionals for advice . It will be impartial and relates only to you .
• Quietly but quickly gather as much evidence and information about the family finances but do not log onto a computer belonging to your partner and take financial information about them or their bank accounts . This would be ruled inadmissible and could be seen as a criminal act which could have disastrous consequences .
• Similarly , do not ask the family accountant for this information .
• Get hold of the marriage certificate or a copy – you will need it .
• If there are any , find copies copy of any pre-nuptial , post-nuptial agreements .
• If the marriage took place abroad , get copies of any documentation you have of this .
• Budget for future expenses for the family who will be living with you .
• Think about if you need alternative accommodation . Can you get help with this ?
Finally think about how legal costs can be paid . Access to a family lawyer is essential and must be budgeted for during divorce . If no funds are available , could a third-party could help or lend money . But make any loans as formal as possible so they can be considered in the divorce settlement . Make sure you have documentary evidence of them .
Once you have considered these things , although some people do not want it ( some do ), you are well on your way to preparing for any divorce or separation .
As much planning as possible will stand you well for dealing with a very emotional time in your life .
Contact us now for a free no obligation chat about how our unique model with a fixed fee and sensible approach can help you . Tel : 07500 933818 or email : chris @ fair-result . co . uk
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