Winter Garden Magazine October 2018 | Page 48

Relaxing with Your Five Senses Audrey Costa T aste, touch, sight, hearing and smell. These are our 5 senses we have to work with, and mine always seem heightened around this time of year. Pumpkin spice everything, comfy sweaters (at least indoors), fall decorations on neighborhood porches, and happy squeals and screams from little monsters, ghouls and princesses getting their favorite Halloween candy. When you want to unwind or come down from the stress and craziness of every function or activity taking place this time of year, what things soothe you? Not including people or pets, but rather the sensory signals that engage your senses that get you back to center. Our senses can accentuate or alleviate any stress we might be under. Therapists recommend focusing on your senses and breathing when your mind starts a knife fight with itself. Below are some of my favorite stress- 48  | WINTER GARDEN MAGAZINE | OCTOBER 2018 relieving sensory cues that hopefully Fall more than any other season. might come in handy for you: Smell I love the smell of coffee – especially with Fall’s warm hazelnut, praline, and pumpkin spice signature scents. The aroma of coffee reminds me of a new day, a fresh start. And since I can sometimes be prone to bad decision-making (darn you, 3am cheesecake!), it’s a comforting scent for me. With chronic anxiety, I’ve learned to use coffee beans to ground myself (no pun intended). When my brain is in a negative loop, like thinking about the imminent holiday spends, imminent weight gain from holiday goodies, or impending visits with my family, I enjoy the smell of coffee beans to remind myself that everything is going to be ok. Smelling something familiar to relax yourself can be soothing, but we also use smell to launch ourselves into the spirit of Sight I have a few visuals that bolster my spirit. Full disclosure, I have never really matured past cartoons and holiday movies. I love me some Halloween movies! Not only do cartoons and holiday movies transport me back to a simpler time of Saturday-morning- relaxin’ and excitement for this time of year, but these days these shows are made for everyone to enjoy – no matter the age. They make things seem uncomplicated, clear, even innocent. Your own visual happy cues, whether they be landscape photography, paintings, sculpture, or even memes will certainly relieve some of those adult fixations grown folks like to harp on. For me, movies like Halloweentown or Hocus Pocus just make me want to relocate to a place where trees have turned red,