Winter Garden Magazine November 2016 | Page 16

the battle against diabetes:: One family’s valiant story Billy Flanigan In 1965, at the age of 7, my sister Gail was diagnosed with Type One Diabetes, back then known as “Sugar Diabetes”. There were not many cases of this disease at the time and the research had not reached the level it has today, so basically a diabetic was told that they could no longer eat sugar. My sister’s life changed dramatically because the everyday things that a seven-year-old wants to eat contained sugar. The cereal in the morning, the cookies at lunch and the dessert after dinner were all taken away from her like a thief in the night. The only sugar she was allowed were the Life Savers that she kept on her in case she got shaky and felt light headed. Back then, a diabetic would have to urinate in a small shot glass and drop a pill into the urine. Depending on the color it turned, indicated how much insulin she would have to inject. Blue was perfect, green was so-so and orange was bad. Every time it turned blue, we would all celebrate but most of the time, it was either green or orange. Every February vacation from school, she would spend a week at the Joslin clinic in Boston learning how to treat her diabetes. She would be excused from classes in school so she could eat a snack and 16  |  WINTER GARDEN MAGAZINE  |  NOVEMBER 2016 several times, she would be rushed to the hospital and a few times even fell into a coma, all because her blood sugars were so high. How could this be? She eliminated sugar from her diet, yet it was still bad. Fast forward twenty years…many advances had been made, but by then it was too late. Gail’s eyesight was starting to go and her kidneys were failing. By the age of 35, she was on dialysis, waiting for a kidney donor. When she turned 37, with two years of dialysis treatments behind her, a donor came through. She had the surgery and was feeling great, until one morning when she woke up and suffered a stroke. The next four years of her life were spent in a nursing home, paralyzed on the right side of her body with no hope to speak or walk again. Her new kidney failed and she was put back on dialysis in the nursing home. Because of the efforts of a loving, supportive family, Gail was able to construct some sentences and was able to leave the facility in a wheel chair on special occasions. But her life was mostly stricken to a bed watching VHS videos and waiting for the next visitor. At the age of forty-two, this beautiful girl lost her battle and diabetes took her life. Ten years after her death, I was about to celebrate my 50th birthday and decided to put on a show in my sister’s memory Billy’s daughter, Lexi Flanigan