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The power of the spoken word . Heirlooms do not always have to be objects . They can also be written words , songs or love letters .
Some couples might want to use their parent ’ s wedding vows , or have those spoken at the reception . Is there a special song in your family ? Invite family to dance to this important ballad at the reception or have a soloist sing it at the ceremony . Have a grandparent read aloud a love letter that they received from their spouse long ago , especially if it talks about starting a family together and you are a product of that love story . There will not be a dry eye in the room – guaranteed !
Family heirlooms can be powerful remembrances of history , acknowledging where you came from and symbolizing the love story that you are creating . Make sure to photograph any heirlooms that are used and honor them in a way that is meaningful . Then most importantly , don ’ t misplace this treasured piece of history ! XmB