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passed down for generations , yet you still want to weave a sentimental heirloom that represents part of their love story into your own ? There are many options !
Re-Fashion ! While your mother ’ s bridal attire or the family jewels may not be your style , you can still use pieces of them in unique ways .
Wrap your bouquet in a strip of fabric from her dress . Use fabric from her dress to make a ring bearer ’ s pillow or a garter . Incorporate appliques from her dress to adorn your shoes . Create a pocket square for your groom to wear in his suit out of something memorable from his father ’ s closet . Tuck your great aunt ’ s hair comb into your updo . Pin the family brooch into your bouquet .
Get creative ! Everyday items that are family heirlooms can also be used in your wedding – they do not have to be wearable . Get creative and if something is special to you , use it in a unique way .
Does someone in your family collect ceramic figurines ? Make your favorite one a cake topper ! Is there a special wing chair or bench from your grandparent ’ s home that you love ? It could be used at your wedding to take pictures with or have at the head table to use during toasts . Imagine the wonderful photos that will come from this special family heirloom . Incorporate your grandfather ’ s antique clock into the table arrangement at the reception – make it a focal point . Use old family photographs of couples whose love story you respect and display them at your reception . People will enjoy admiring these snapshots , while adding a sense of nostalgia . Be sure to coordinate the frame colors with the overall decor of your wedding . Make a toast extra memorable by drinking from heirloom champagne glasses , or use the special family cake platter for your own wedding cake .