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I don't have all the answers or know everything, but the best advice I can give is to be patient even when things get challenging. Take a step back, don't be afraid to ask for help, and don't overdue it to the point of giving up. As a newly injured person, take your time and learn your limitations and do research. Staying active and fit will help with your independence and overall health. Don't be in a hurry to start working or to get back in school. Focus on your rehab so that when the time comes you're fully ready. There are plenty of job opportunities out there even for quadriplegics. I currently work from home doing scheduling for a home care agency. Don't get discouraged if you get turned down a few times and don't blame it on your injury otherwise your attitude will change completely. It will take time but don't give up. School is another great option. They are very helpful and do everything possible to help you succeed. They will have someone to take notes for you. Disability services at the schools are there for whatever you can possibly imagine. I was very nervous when I started, but with technology and the assistance offered, school has actually been very easy.
The best advice I can give is to never except failure and never give up. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do something. The options and possibilities are endless if you just keep fighting. Life doesn't stop just because you're in a chair. I feel like I can still do everything I did before my accident if I stay patient and work hard. Remember that people are always willing to help when needed and there are endless resources to make life a little easier.