Wheaton College Alumni Magazine Winter 2015 | Page 50

readings commencement The Value of Friendship m by Dr. Arthur J. Ammann ’58 with Barbara McLennan ’60 A casual meeting of old friends at a Wheaton College class reunion set the wheels in motion for this book, which challenges readers to discover the value of the “invisible” person, and to participate in transformation. INVISIBLE I am invisible—a blur without form— like a blue vapor mist on a damp, foggy morn. I am timid and frightened, sort of broken inside, I am wounded and hurting, so why wouldn’t I hide? I stay near the edges—keep out of the light, if people don’t see me they won’t know my plight. But oh, how I yearn for a kind touch or a word, some little sign that perhaps I am heard. My name is Refugee, Orphan, or Stray— the fifth of ten children, or someone betrayed. I’m divorced, I am homeless, I have missing teeth; my skin betrays me of “foreign belief.” I’m a bell-hop, a bar maid, any person who serves— a snap judgment decides if respect is deserved. Many eyes look right through me not seeing my face, though I ]