Wheaton College Alumni Magazine Winter 2015 | Page 42

alumni news profile Billy Graham Scholar Carlos Ruiz M.A. ’13 and his wife, Janeil Nellis Ruiz Psy.D. ’09, have two young sons, Micah and Soren. seek justice, love mercy by Jessica Allen Bernthal This alumnus’ journey from Mexico to the United States has uniquely equipped him for multicultural ministry in Chicago. The narrative of the sojourner is a recurring theme throughout Scripture, from Abraham’s departure from Haran to the apostle Paul’s missionary journeys. It’s a narrative that reveals God’s heart for the immigrant, and challenges Christians to love and care for individuals from all walks of life. This subtext takes on a deep and personal meaning for Carlos Ruiz M.A. ’13, a native of Oaxaca, Mexico, who immigrated to the United States 13 years ago. Today he lives and works in Chicago as the director of community groups at River City Community Church. He’s also a therapist, practicing part-time in the city’s Humboldt Park neighborhood with his wife, Janeil Nellis Ruiz Psy.D. ’09, and leading therapy groups and private counseling sessions for junior high students and their moms at a local school. Carlos says his experiences as an immigrant have provided a foundation for him to minister, both as a pastor and a counselor. “Coming from Mexico and having gone through an intense period of adaptation has made me more empathetic and compassionate to others,” he explains. “I know the sense of alienation, the struggle to learn a new language, the feelings of being the outsider.” W H EA T O N . ED U / M A G A Z I N E Six years ago, Carlos joined the through a Billy Graham scholarship staff of River City, a multi-ethnic designed for students entering urban church of about 200 members that ministry. serves the city’s Latino community through a vibrant ESL ministry. In “Carlos is pretty extraordinary,” addition to leading several small says Dr. Ezer Kang, professor of groups in Spanish, Carlos provides psychology. “His honesty and willpastoral care to the church’s com- ingness to ponder questions about munity group leaders, and preaches race and ethnicity in the context on occasion. He is ardent about of deeply personal experiences as relational ministry and promoting a Mexican and Christian living and serving in Chicago helped our growth and healing. community to begin talking ‘bet“If there isn’t that human contact, ter’ about differences and unity in that incarnation, it can be hard for complicated ministry settings.” immigrants to overcome feelings of fear and worthlessness . . . I don’t see Although Carlos says he and his wife healing without community,” he have found their niche in Chicago— says, noting that he views interde- which has the fifth largest Latino pendent community development as population in the United States and a partnership that helps people own the second largest population of Mexican immigrants—he doesn’t who they are. rule out returning to his homeland. The youngest of five children, Car- In April he was honored to be the los came to Christ at age 12 through primary speaker at a pastors’ retreat an American missionary who would in Oaxaca, and he says he’s encourlater become his father-in-law. When aged by the spiritual awakening haphe first came to the United States, he pening in Mexico. didn’t speak any English. Now he’s not only fluent but has also earned “When I think about the doors that three degrees—a bachelor’s in sacred have opened for me to serve where music from Moody Bible Institute, God is calling me to serve, I’m just a M.Div. from North Park Theo- amazed,” says Carlos. “As a kid I logical Seminary, and a master’s in never imagined that this would be clinical psychology from Wheaton my life.”   W H E A T O N    47