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serve his country and look sharp. He was met with great dis- appointment. The Corps had a height requirement of 5 feet 8 inches, and Williams stood 5 feet 6 inches. However, as the war effort grew, it took its toll on the Corps’ ranks. The Corps was eventually forced to change its height requirement, paving the way for Williams to achieve his dream. Williams became a full-fledged Marine in May 1943, des- tined to serve in the Pacific theater. His first stop was Guadal- canal, a tropical island that was worlds away from the dairy farm where he grew up. It was there he learned to be a soldier. “We trained with Marines who had already been through combat,” he says. “They trained us thoroughly on discipline and acceptance of orders. When they said that was your duty, you accepted it and went on to do it. I figured the more I learned, the better chance I had for survival.” Williams was anxious going into battle, but he had a secret weapon to inspire his bravery. Her name was Ruby Dale Meredith. “I never let myself think I wasn’t coming home to that beautiful lady I wanted to marry,” he says. “We became engaged before I left, and I would not permit myself to think I would not make it home to her.” Courage at Iwo Jima On February 23, 1945, when the flag went up on Iwo Jima, Williams and his fellow Marines felt their spirits lift, too. “I had been there three days,” he says. “Some of the men had been there five days, and we had lost so many. The flag went up about 1,000 yards from where we were. When we saw Old Glory flying on that mountain, we began yelling and celebrat- ing. We felt like we were going to win this thing.” One thing stood between Williams’ company and victory: a line of pill boxes, bunkers made of a cement material that permitted the enemy to point their guns out a small opening in the front, wreaking havoc while remaining safe. Those cement bunkers were impenetrable. Williams was asked to go in with a flame thrower, the only weapon that could be effective. He was given the order and told Williams giving a speech at the Cedar Park monument dedication in Texas. 82 WEST VIRGINIA EXECUTIVE Williams receiving the Medal of Honor from President Harry Truman in 1945. to choose four Marines to go with him to distract the enemy while he did his job. The mission took four hours. “I have no explanation as to how I was able to eliminate seven of those pill boxes,” says Williams. “Of the four men with me, two gave their lives that day.” Williams took some shrapnel in his leg on Iwo Jima and was tagged for evacuation, but he tore off the tag and stayed, serving in the Pacific until the atomic bomb ended the war. A Hero Comes Home October 5, 1945, President Harry Truman awarded Williams the Medal of Honor, the highest honor bestowed on military personnel and an honor that would later help him heal the emotional wounds he suffered during the war. “I was ordered back to the States to receive the medal, and I decided after that I was going home to that beautiful lady I cherished,” says Williams. “When Harry Truman put that ribbon around my neck, it was still a bit of a mystery to me. I couldn’t figure out why I was selected for this honor.” Although Williams came back to his girl a hero, he did not feel like a hero or even much like himself. He was torn be- tween his mission and the realization that the enemies were young men like him. “There was no PTSD at the time and nowhere to get help,” he says. “Your main source of comfort and adjustment was your family. I had taken too many lives in such a horrible way. I couldn’t forgive myself, but that was my order. My purpose was to win the war.” Constantly being asked to talk about what led him to be a hero helped Williams find himself. “I was forced to talk about my experience, and that was the best therapy I could have had,” he says. “I had a brother in the Battle of the Bulge who wouldn’t talk about it, and, con- sequently, it just ate at him.” Eventually, in 1962, after wrestling with it for years, he de- cided to accompany his wife to church, and that helped him reconcile his mission with his heart. “I always say I married a Methodist angel, and I ended up in church and realized I could get forgiveness and I could forgive myself,” he says. “I realized God was not holding me accountable.”