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[ community ] JAMIE NULL Hometown Hero Stephanie Hayhurst-Hall It is hard to find a better spokesperson for the thousands of foster children in West Virginia than Stephanie Hayhurst-Hall. From a very young age, she wanted to become an adoptive parent. The feeling of paying it forward is very personal to Hall, who herself was adopted in 1977 through the Children’s Home Society of West Virginia (CHS). When she and her husband began dating, she told him she wanted to adopt a child one day, and in 2016, she, her husband and their son adopted daughter Sophie from CHS. “When she came to us in foster care, she had been neglected, experienced trauma, had several health issues and was severely delayed,” says Hall. “Today, she is a completely normal, healthy and happy 5 year old.” Born and raised in Pennsboro, WV, Hall has become a spokesperson for the roughly 6,700 children in West Virginia who are in foster care. Her personal goals and free time are dedicated to advocating for them. “I want to see all children have forever families,” she says. “There are so many myths and misconceptions associated with fostering and adopting. I love talking to anyone who will listen so I can address those candidly and give a real perspective.” 22 WEST VIRGINIA EXECUTIVE Hall has always been open about her adoption experiences and encourages others to consider becoming foster families. In order to advocate, she has opened the door of communication about her personal life and the joys and struggles of fostering and adopting a child. She stresses that agencies and nonprofits assigned to a child will work with each family no matter how conflicting their schedule might be. Both Hall and her husband juggle full- time careers, but they made it happen and believe others can too. “We don’t really hold back or hide where our foster journey has taken us,” she says. “We have had open discussions with small groups and couples in our home. We bring up the questions cou- ples are often afraid or embarrassed to ask. We know what those questions are because we had a lot of them ourselves. We talk about the good, the bad and the ugly of the system, which needs completely reformed and is not the children’s fault. I also get asked to speak to a lot of groups, and I love getting the opportunity to share my story, our experiences and why it’s so important for healthy families to consider fostering and adopting. We also share our experiences on social media and have been able to reach out to several families. We REBECCA DEVONO PHOTOGRAPHY invite them to the small group sessions we have in our home.” Hall currently serves on the executive board of directors and as a fundraiser for CHS. “The board approved my nomination last year, and I was able to become a board member to the organization that I credit with saving my life and my daughter’s life,” she says. “It was definitely a bucket list item for me, and to say I am humbled by the work CHS does every single day for our state’s children is a complete understatement.” Hall, who is the owner of the Stephanie Hayhurst-Hall State Farm Agency in Clarksburg, is also the co-director and a board member for the newly formed Antero Resources Charitable Foundation. In the past, she has been involved with the Ritchie County Economic Develop- ment Authority, CrissCross of Harrison County, United Way of Harrison County, The Community Foundation and the Harrison County Chamber of Commerce, where she served as chairman of the board. “My true passion and hobby is advo- cating for children in West Virginia, and that is how I spend most of my free time,” she says. “I believe adoption gives a child hope and a future, and the future of our communities becomes a little brighter. Most of the children who enter foster care are from families who have been in the cycle of drug abuse, neglect and/or physical abuse for generations. If these children are able to become adopted and we get them in healthy families, we have just broken a cycle. This child has hope and a future.”  How You Can Help The need for foster and adoptive parents in West Virginia is great. If you’re interested in opening your home to a child in need, here’s what you need to do: 1. Register as an adoptive/foster parent by contacting Mission WV. 2. Attend a pre-service orientation. 3. Complete a home study. After these steps are complete and you receive your approval notification, you’ll be ready to make a difference in the life of a West Virginia child. For more information, visit http://dhhr.wv.gov.