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th # 74 •DECEmBER 14 , 2015 at Froebel. To a packed auditorium, Sinatra sang the rousing song from his short film, also titled “The House I Live In,” which includes the line, “All races and religions – that’s America to me.” He also gave a speech, calling the boycott “the most shameful incident in the history of American education.” The strike ended just 11 days later. He may have given up a $10,000 engagement, but Sinatra made more than a statement by appearing in Gary. This little-known event made an impact on history, something no amount of money could have done. (Excerpted from “Events that changed history – how fighting for racial integration cost Frank Sinatra a $10k gig, but he did it anyway,” by Belle Beth Cooper, January 9, 2013 – Attendly.com) He once said: “We’ve got a hell of a long way to go in this racial situation. As long as most white men think of a Negro first and a man second, we’re in trouble. I don’t know why we can’t grow up.” How about a specific anecdote regarding your relationship with Sinatra… My wife and I saw Sinatra in concert four times. One notable performance was in 1984 at New York City’s Carnegie Hall, an absolutely magnificent venue whose acoustics are unmatched anywhere in the USA. Sinatra was accompanied by a full orchestra, all of whom were dressed in tuxedos. Sinatra wore a tuxedo with tails. In between songs, he would share anecdotes with the audience. One of them was his apparent dislike for his home state, New Jersey. What he said flabbergasted my wife and me, and most of the audience, I am sure: “I hope New Jersey detaches itself from the rest of the country and floats away into the Atlantic Ocean.” We later found out that earlier that year Sinatra vowed never to visit the state of New Jersey again after a member of the Casino Control Commission denounced him as an “obnoxious bully” for forcing a blackjack dealer to violate state law. Sinatra never suffered fools gladly, so he reacted in his own candid fashion. Fortunately, Stevens Institute of Technology in his home town of Hoboken, New Jersey, decided to award Sinatra an honorary degree at its May 1985 WE THE ITALIANS | 13 www.wetheitalians.com