Nancy Slater is a Parelli Professional who has dedicated her life to making the world a better place for horses and the people who love them. Her self-less passion for educating kids as well as demonstrating how a real partnership with your horse can lead to competitive success is what makes Nancy stand out. We could not be more proud to be represented by Nancy as she helps us to teach horse riders, trainers and owners to use love, language and leadership to reach their goals with horses. Thank you Nancy!
Pat and Linda Parelli
dangerous habits. I'm sure it
was very confusing to her to
be told to change habits she
was so accustomed to. I had
to carefully explain the new
rules to preserve her
curiosity, dignity, and try.
Luna was finally ready to be
tied high from the oak tree
after she was consistently
moving off of my pressure. I
could control her actions
with my training stick. She
knew to move her hip to
bring me her nose and to
come to me when I backed
away. Our lines of
communication were OPEN.
She trusted me. Luna tested
the high line rope as I stood
close by watching. She
moved around,
experimenting with the
tree, testing the firmness,
steadfastness and the
boundaries. She stepped
forward to release her own
pressure, lowered her head,
and began licking and
chewing, signs of
understanding and
acceptance. When she had
finished processing, I gently
unclipped her from the tree
to hand graze her. She
happily munched the green
grass as I scratched her
belly.
Teach, control, reinforce,
refine are the steps for
partnership. With the help
of the Patience tree, Luna
gives softly to a feeling of
pressure from my hands on
the lead rope, she respects
boundaries, and stands
quiet and happy when tied.
She doesn't panic with
pressure on her head or
anywhere on her body,
instead she looks at me and
calmly figures out what part
to give. She is in the
reinforcement stage of
development.
Obstacles, arenas, ropes,
bridles, bits, saddles and
bareback pads are all tools.
There is a purpose for each
tool, for different stages of
development on different
horses in different
situations. When using a
tool the dignity of the horse
must remain intact. That tool
should be used only when
the horse is ready to
understand it and benefit
from its use, and never used
as punishment. The
Patience tree is a helpful
tool when used correctly.
Please find a reputable
professional, one who
encourages you to
participate in the training
process. Different
Horsenalities (horse
personalities) need
different approaches.
Be safe and savvy on!
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