Where It All Begins
How can you learn not to judge others? Do you judge yourself? When you start your
day, do you judge the first person you see in the mirror? This is where it all starts. It’s a
known fact that someone can only like or love someone else from the viewpoint and/or
attitude that they truly love themselves. It can also be a challenge and seem hard for
some to love themselves because they feel judged or don’t always feel accepted by their
peers.
People pick up on energy! Try starting your day with a smile and love in your heart for
yourself. Then, project that towards those around you, instead of coming from negative,
tense or judgmental vibes. You will attract good energy and people will be drawn towards you, instead of away from you. When you accept yourself, it is easier to accept
others and for others to accept you.
It is a psychological fact that people hurt and punish others to relieve the pain of their
own self-hatred or insecurities. So it all starts with self-love! When we make peace with
the way we feel about ourselves, we realize we don’t want to judge anyone the way we
have been judging our self or been judged by others, because we know how it feels to
hurt.
When you wake up every day you have to live with yourself; you will walk with yourself,
throughout all of your life. The only
one true best friend you will ever
100% know you can count on for anything, is yourself. Start working on
that relationship-- knowing and
trusting yourself and your inner voice
now. As you grow in life, you will find
that your one true friend you have
always wished you could have is right
there inside of you and is always
with you, no matter what.
By Olivia Jensen