Wanderlust: Expat Life & Style in Thailand December 2014 / January 2015 | Page 34

Life & Travel was a mix of empowering women’s songs put together by Nathan Harrow, an expat from the UK. Two expat women, Nikki Breedt and Emma Hollis-Ricketts, were our choreographers. We welcomed anyone. There was even a whole class from Bangkok Prep dancing with us! QUESTION: YOU’VE BEEN HERE FOR FIVE YEARS, INCLUDING TWO YEARS OF STUDYING IN HUA HIN. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT LIFE IN THAILAND? Answer: Yes, I’ve lived in Bangkok for three years and Hua Hin for two years before that. Bangkok has endless opportunities for things to do. Parks, festivals, sports, and a lot of runs. You’re spoilt for choice! QUESTION: WHAT HAS IT BEEN LIKE FOR YOU AS A BLACK WOMAN LIVING IN BANGKOK? Answer: I don’t want to say it’s difficult to be a black woman in Bangkok, but people make snap judgments. Once I open my mouth and people get to know me, it all changes. I’ve been here long enough to know that it comes from unfamiliarity. I might be the first black person a lot of people have been in close proximity to. And I’ve chosen to live here. No one’s forcing me to live here. QUESTION: HAVE YOU LIVED IN OTHER COUNTRIES OTHER THAN THAILAND AND ZIMBABWE? Answer: I lived in the United States for three years. I didn’t want to stay. I wouldn’t want to have kids in the U.S. because of the culture. I actually see more parallels between the culture of Zimbabwe and that of Thailand. There is more respect for elders; it’s a more communal 34 WANDERLUST way of living. These values are important to me. QUESTION: YOU STARTED BANGKOK RISING ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO. WHAT IS THE MISSION, IN A NUTSHELL? Most recently, this November, Bangkok Rising teamed up with Bangkok Lyrical Lunacy for a spoken word poetry event. Poems and stories about being a woman were performed, including topics such as losing one’s virginity to body image and sexuality. Everyone wore orange to show their support for ending violence against women, which is part of a campaign BKK Rising is doing. It was a great event and we are grateful to everyone who showed his or her support. QUESTION: CONGRATUALTIONS ON ALL THE GOOD WORK YOU’RE DOING, CHII. ONE MORE QUESTION. WILL THERE BE ANOTHER FLASHMOB IN BANGKOK IN 2015? Answer: Bangkok Rising wants to end violence against women. We are trying to raise awareness about domestic abuse in Thailand— it’s a subject that tends to get swept under the carpet here. The events and efforts made by Bangkok Rising always have to do with ending violence against women. We choose a new charity once a year and we are open to suggestions for charities to support. QUESTION: WHAT HAS IT BEEN LIKE TO RUN THIS GROUP OF VOLUNTEERS? CHALLENGES? HIGHLIGHTS? Answer: It’s been a lot of work. We are a group of volunteers. There is a good core of volunteers who have been working together since the start; but because it’s an expat group, there are a lot of goodbyes. People move away or go home. It keeps BKK Rising an ever-evolving, malleable group. We helped put on a production of Vagina Monologues in February and March of last year, and the event raised 100,000 baht for charity! We have performed two flashmobs in Bangkok, too, to help raise awareness. The first one was at Benjakiti Park, and then we got on the BTS and did it again at Siam Paragon. The music Answer