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Health & Wellness FROM THE ASHES OF DISASTER, Vol. 1 SMILE FOR HAPPINESS After one year of sharing tips in Wanderlust’s “Happiness Toolkit” column, Amelie now imparts the personal growth lessons gleaned from her extensive experience in war zones and countries hit by natural disasters with her new column, “From the Ashes of Disaster.” In this first installment, read about the power of a smile. by Amelie Yan-Gouiffes I n 1999, an earthquake devastated the coffee region of Colombia, particularly destroying a prosperous town called Armenia. After one year working in former Yugoslavia, I was on my second humanitarian mission, this time with the Red Cross. I arrived on the disaster scene in Armenia where not a single house remained. People were living on the same plots of land where their homes once stood—but their houses no longer existed. All that endured were memories of former lives and a heavy, mournful fog. In the midst of this fog, I saw a woman surrounded by rubble. She called out to me so I walked toward 24 WANDERLUST her, trying to find the right words to say in the aftermath of this disaster. She smiled at me—a big, broad, radiant smile—and then offered to make me some coffee. The woman rummaged for a hunk of brick upon which I could sit. I sat down, and she picked up a chipped cup missing a handle and a dark brown sock. Then she filled the sock with coffee. In that moment, the only thing I could think of was the sock. Brown was not likely to be its original color. My guess was that it had been white in the past, so where had this brown come from? Coffee? Soil? Had it been used on a foot? It was, after all, not even two days after a major earthquake. There’s no way the sock now involved in coffee preparation could possibly have been a clean sock. The woman warmed water on a little fire. It warmed quickly. She poured water in the sock over my piece of cup; and, yes, I could see that the questionably tinged sock made for a convenient organic filter. Sure. But I was in Armenia to assess where our team could install the water tanks, which meant there was not yet safe drinking water in the area! As this smiling woman prepared her offering for me, I knew I was about to drink the first non-potable coffee of my life. (Turns out that it WWW.WANDERLUSTMAG.COM