page 44 X metropolitan weddings X Summer / fall 2021 phillip wright
phillipwright @ thevenues . org 417.350.6017
Is there a “ standard ” ceremony ?
Amy Not really . Every couple has their own needs and every officiant their own style . My approach is to tell a story that shines a light on a couple ’ s unique love . No need for them to write vows , which can be stressful . Every event is individual , especially services that blend religions .
Phillip No , so be sure to ask for what you want . A rehearsal ? Special music or readings ? A blessing at the reception ? Pre-marital counseling ? Line it all out to create your best event .
How far in advance should couples book ?
Amy As soon as the venue is locked in , especially if you ’ re planning a destination wedding . Three months is usually enough for any getting-to-know-you interviews .
Phillip Two-to-three months is a good guideline , but if you have less time , ask anyway . Officiants understand that every situation is different . I ’ ve even officiated with just a few hours ’ notice to accommodate a medical emergency .
How do people find an officiant ?
Amy Lots of great couples have found me via social media , online searches , and , of course , referrals .
Phillip Personal recommendations are great such as wedding planners , couples who had a terrific experience or folks who loved a ceremony they attended .