Virginia Episcopalian Magazine Winter 2012 Issue | Page 28

UNEXPECTED HOSPITALITY EMILY CHERRY Picture it: you’re a group of tired, worn-out and, most likely, sweaty cyclists looking for a place to rest. You’ve been biking across the country for weeks, and you’re nearing journey’s end. Maybe you’ve camped under the stars more nights than you had planned, and you’re looking for a quiet spot to lay your head. That’s the story two different Virginia congregations heard this past fall, when separate groups of crosscountry cyclists contacted Christ Church, Glen Allen and St. John’s, Tappahannock, looking for a place to stay. The Rev. Bill Pickering, priest-incharge at St. John’s, welcomed five cross-country cyclists from northern California into the church rectory. The group of young men, friends from high school and college, all came from different parts of the country: a mechanical engineering student from Maryland; a doctorate student from Minnesota; a former accountant about to start an internship with Heifer International from Maryland; a seminarian from Minnesota; and an urban ministry worker from Illinois. “These days, it is a bit frightening to welcome strangers, but sometimes a little risk brings great benefits, and we do entertain angels, unaware,” said Pickering. Two cyclists from Oregon found a home for the night at Christ Church, Glen Allen, where the sanctuary is open and unlocked 24 hours a day, seven days a week. The duo was cycling for a cause: to raise awareness for eating disorders. While in Charlottesville, they called ahead to Christ Church and spoke with the Rev. Paul Johnson, rector, who offered them a place to stay. “We try to show as much hospitality as we can,” said Johnson, who welcomed the cyclists to spend the night in the sanctuary. They were also invited to make use of the shower in the new youth building, and later spent time connecting with the youth 26 St. John’s, Tappahannock provided shelter to five young men on a mission. The Rev. Bill Pickering, priest-in-charge stands behind (from left) Casey Fittz, a mechanical engineering student; Chris Ahn, an accountant; Andy Petran, a doctoral candidate; Brian Wongkamalasai, an urban minister; and Andrew Zhao, a seminary student. group holding a small meeting that same evening. “We try to help people feel at home as much as possible, and extend ourselves and order our life as much as possible so that someone who’s a stranger will feel as comfortable as possible being on these grounds,” added Johnson. “We’ve struggled, as you might expect, with our decision to keep Christ VIRGINIA EPISCOPALIAN / Winter 2012 Church’s front doors unlocked—what’ll happen, will things get stolen, will vandals strike?” said Drew Dolson, a Christ Church parishioner. “But in the end, it’s not really our place to lock, is it?  Whether people call ahead or just appear on the threshold, ‘Sorry, no room at the inn’ or ‘All locked up for the night’ can’t be the answer.” t Want to learn more about enhancing your church’s hospitality ministry? Welcoming a weary cyclist might be one way to practice radical hospitality in your congregation, but there are plenty of other ways to make such hospitality an intentional practice. Visit the Episcopal Church Foundation’s Vital Practices site at ecfvp.org and search for the keyword “hospitality” for a host of resources and articles on the topic.