Virginia Episcopalian Magazine Spring 2012 Issue | Page 22

BEFORE THEY WERE PRIESTS EMILY CHERRY Before they were priests, they were doctors. They were lawyers, actors, accountants and soldiers. The priesthood is somewhat unique in that, more often than not, people come to seminary from previous careers. In other words, they explore a first vocation before following a call to an ordained vocation. Each path of discernment is as unique as the individual who navigates its twists and turns. Here are four Virginia priests who heard a call to a second career. When she was a girl growing up in California, ANN GILLESPIE knew what she wanted to be: “I saw ‘Sound of Music’ and I thought, ‘Julie Andrews is who I want to be.’” And she shaped her life to lead in that direction – participating in acting classes and theater in high school, then enrolling in acting school in New York before moving to Los Angeles with her husband to become a full-time actor. Most recognized for her role as Jackie Taylor, the drama-heavy mother of Kelly Taylor on “Beverly Hills 90201,” Gillespie also had roles on “Star Trek,” “Gilmore Girls” and “ER.” “It was a great way to make a living, a great way to raise kids,” said Gillespie, a mother of two. But, as time wore on, “what was coming to me was less satisfying, at the same time as my own values were crystalizing.” As she grew more frustrated with acting, she grew more in touch with a practice of yoga. “I was really starting to cast my net and say, ‘I’ve got to figure out what’s next.’” And whatever that would be, it would “combine the ritual and pageantry of my first love – theater – with the transformation and healing of yoga, my second love.” The self-proclaimed “spawn of Episcopal clergy,” Gillespie grew up in a church-going household and had considered a call to the priesthood. In the mid-1980s, in fact, she spoke with a female priest at her parish, and expressed that she felt stirrings of a call to ordination. The priest responded, “Oh, it’s so hard, if you can do anything else, do it.” 20 “I look at that actually as real providence,” said Gillespie, “because I was in no way ready to accept or process the ramifications of the call at that point in my life.” But, over 20 years later, the time at last felt right. “Finally, I just surrendered,” said Gillespie. “The lovely thing is that doors have kind of flown open to me since I said ‘yes’ to God in this way.” Gillespie and her husband, Jeff Allin, moved their family to northern Virginia in 2004 so she could enroll at Virginia Theological Seminary. Now, as priest associate at Christ Church, Alexandria for over four years, Gillespie transfers some of her skills from her acting career to her vocation. “Actors have to step inside other people’s skin,” she explained. “I feel like I’ve been a student of human nature for a long time, and that has been really helpful.” And of her career as an actor? “I don’t think acting was the wrong call. It was an early call.” NORMAN WHITMIRE had several inclinations that he was headed toward the priesthood when he was young. Before he enrolled at Harvard University with dreams of pre-medical studies and cardiothoracic surgery, his grandfather, a Baptist minister, informed him, “You’re going to be a preach \