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Scott Farrell: Continued from Page 11 What can you tell to the new generation of pledges around the country going to their first leather bar meeting? First, I would welcum them and give them accolades for having the courage to step out their comfort zone. I would then discuss what their interests may be and encourage them to move in a direction to fulfill that desire in a healthy, safe way. I would encourage them to be who they are and who they want to be without fear of what others may think, and also share how wonderful and liberating that experience has been for me. Lastly, I would tell them to enjoy all the great fucking sex they are going to have along the way! What was your inspiration for running for a title? To be in service and give back to a community that accepted me, loved me, and taught me how to be an honorable man with compassion.To have a respectable, honorable platform in which to stand so I could begin to share how my experiences as a Leatherman has changed my life in the most profound way. If heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say to you at the pearly gates? “You now own any professional sports franchise Photo by Rich Stadmiller you choose, you are worth 10 billion dollars, and you have a 12” cock. Now get your ass down there” then god would reveal that she was Morgan Fairchild and insist that I stuffed her pussy with my new 12” cock and cum down her throat prior to sending me back. Sub vs Slave: Continued from Page 23 necessarily have submissive personalities. People in a Master/slave dynamic may or may not engage in sex or SM play. Slaves may be given organizational or management tasks and may exhibit personality traits commonly associated with Dominance. Or they may not. The common thread, though, is that the slave always surrenders and obeys the Master. Slaves may be of any gender identity. There may or may not be a contract. Often the contract is simply, “Master is responsible. Slave obeys.” If the slave no longer wishes to surrender and obey, the slave may dissolve the relationship. This is consensual slavery. You know what category you fit in by trying on different relationship styles until you find one that fits. Spend a lot of time getting to know yourself and what your true needs are. Know what kind of emotional “gas” you need to run the car that is you. A sign that you have hit on the right style for you is that your life begins to flourish. Learn to express and ask for your needs. Know how to tell someone what is unacceptable and why. There is no room for shyness or embarrassment about who you are in these dynamics. One last warning, if you believe a Master/slave dynamic as described above