Urban Image Magazine November 2013 Issue November 2013 | Page 30

With Deszion

HIM: I keep telling my girl I’m
not into any kind of foreplay
that has to do with my ass. She
keeps trying to get me to try
things and it’s pissing me off.
Is she trying to get me to break
up with her? Ain’t that
much experimenting in the
world!

Well, now…sounds like you got
just what most men ask for: a lady
in the streets and a freak in the
bed. The problem with that is,
sometimes you gotta be a little bit
more specific, huh? Seems like
you messed around and got Superfreak on your hands.

you’re very uncomfortable with it,
DON’T DO IT. If she keeps pushing you, how concerned is she
about your feelings? If it was the
other way around and you were
trying to get her to let you get in
some anal play, she kept saying no
and you kept insisting, what would
happen? She’d tell all her little
friends and you’d be an asshole
(pun intended), a jerk, a creep, insensitive and selfish. What? Those
names don’t apply to her because
she’s a chick? NOT!

Look, I know you’re supposed to
“open up” to your partner and try
new things and all that, but anal
play ain’t for everyone. I’ll tell
you like I’d tell my ladies: If
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