Urban Image Magazine November 2013 Issue November 2013 | Page 18

Don’t want to be a Cougar

right course. They are not talking
about twerking and what is the next
best thing. I am always surprised by
some of the ages because none of the
women look like the age they are, but
then again age ain’t nothing but a
number.” There you have it he is just
interested in having sex with you. He
is interested in getting to know your
mind. If you want to date them date
them. Don’t allow anyone or anything
to stop you. If you find happiness then
enjoy it.

Dear Don’t want to be a Cougar,
What is funny I understand where
you coming from. I just know whatever

reason these young men these days
want an older woman in their life is
somewhat beyond me. I heard that
they like mature women who have their
lives together and know their goals.
They know what they want out of the
relationship. These men see something
great in you. I would not date the men
your son’s age but 5 years young
Emiaj
doesn’t seem so bad. As long as he is
not living at home with his mama and
driving her car. Houston we then a
have problem.
I think it is flattering that young men
find slightly older women attractive. I
decided to ask a young man why he
was attracted to older women. He said; “
I am interested in older women because
they are not all about games and are
more established. They know exactly
what they are looking for when it
comes to a serious relationship. I love
having conversations with older women. The conversations that I have with
them seem so empowering and on the
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