Urban Image Magazine November 2013 Issue November 2013 | Page 16

Dear Emiaj,
I love reading your work. Thank
you for being open and honest
with your readers. I am reaching
out to you because I am a woman
and I have a side piece. I have
been cheating on my boyfriend
for about a year now. I still love
him but I have fallen out of love
with him. I met a guy about a year
ago and he is everything that I
want. He knows my situation but
lately he has been wanting more
of my time. I am willing to give it but I
don’t know how to leave my current
situation. I am really interested in
him. Only one of my friends knows
about him and has even met him. She
keeps asking me why I am staying
with the other. I guess it is the history
we have. I have been with him for the
last six years. Yes we have had problems but never like this. Emiaj please
help me…
Cheating and Confused
Dear Cheating and Confused,

to this. I don’t condone cheating at any
point. I would much rather someone
breaks up with me before cheating on
me.
I understand that you love the
man you are with, but not in love with
him. You can love him and not be with
him as well. Love him enough to let
him and go and not hurt him. How
would you feel if he was doing this to
y ou? I am sure you would be hurt and
mad and want to blame the other chick.
You are grown and I don’t have to tell
you are wrong.

Thank you so much for the love and
support. Knowing that you read my
work is humbling. Now my sister you Now you said that your side piece is
know already what I am going to say showing you the attention that you
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