Urban Grandstand Digital Issue 10 | Page 46

ugd exclusive UG Digital Mag: Thank you so much for this opportunity. It’s awesome to be able to connect, and get things out there in terms of what you have going on. Cyrene Tankard: Thank you. I appreciate it. UG Digital Mag: There’s so many people who can appreciate how you were portrayed with the show. Moreso, the relationships you have with family, and the that it’s not about money, and riches, but more about the love, and the lengths you all go through to show your love for each other. How important was it for you to be a part of this show and the movement that it represents? Cyrene Tankard: The importance has grown for me. I was in high school when season one started, and I just wanted to get through high school. Once season two came along, and then having just wrapped up season three, I feel like I have a really amazing opportunity to influence young girls and guys, and older women and men, about the importance of family, and the roles they play within their own families. UG Digital Mag: There was so much shown, and it all really revolved around family. I know that’s what people really appreciate about the show. Cyrene Tankard: One thing that gets me excited and lets me know I’m on the right path is when people of all races and backgrounds come and say this helped me, or that changed my life, or I can really rate to this. I was never going to talk to this family member again, but because you addressed this, it gives me a reason and a positive example. That’s what warms my heart. UG Digital Mag: So talk about the new season of Thicker Than Water! Cyrene Tankard: There’s a lot to look forward to. We have a new addition to the Tankard family. We get to look at my life at Howard University, and my roll as I grow into a young woman, and how I’m maturing. You’ll see how Marcus and Tish are with living in the house with their sub-family. You have Brooklyn with her newfound music career, and Britney is still figuring life out. There’s many different dynamics and angles, and there will be no moments of boredom. I can promise you that. UG Digital Mag: Reality television has truly taken over, and obviously there’s many options, but more people are looking for that positivity that your family offers. I believe you all brought something to the table that isn’t found in many places. Cyrene Tankard: That’s one of the things we take pride in, and we really pray about it as a family. Usually before and after our work days we pray as a family, and make sure everyone is level-headed and good. We want to continue to put that out there, and encourage positivity and love through whatever challenges that come up. UG Digital Mag: Bringing the focus back to you, how have you been able to maintain and balance the newfound celebrity that has come as a result of the show, and now being out of the house and on your own? Cyrene Tankard: Funny thing about it is that it’s just now hitting me, and it continues daily. It’s just a change of mentality. I feel like that change of mentality came with maturity, and it came with the exposure that the television show has given me. Before, I may not have viewed things a certain way, or may not have viewed it as an opportunity. Now I feel like I have to seize every moment, or keep moving, progressing, and getting better. I take this whole opportunity as a way to get better and grow. It’s a platform. It’s like having a super-power, and it can be used for good or evil. I think this is God’s gift to me, and I can give it back to the world as I see it, and can matriculate and grow from “celebrity”, or influence. I have a responsibility to positively influence others. I look at it like I have their lives in my hands, and this is an important and critical time for me to hone in, and get right emotionally so that anything I give off can help them. I don’t want to demean others and influence anyone in a negative way. UG Digital Mag: In what ways have you been able to use your celebrity to give back to other girls coming up, or people in general? Cyrene Tankard: It takes me by surprise every time I go out, or I may be speaking on a panel or at an event. People may come up to me, or even on social media, they’ll say I’ve influenced them, or they look up to me. I’m able to speak life into their lives, speak positive things to them and let them know; I’m not the only one who can be a go-getter and make a difference. For me, it’s about spreading the love, and lifting others. That’s what matters most to me. I want people to know that because many times, people feel out of touch with celebrities. I’m literally a normal person who happens to be in television, that’s it (laughing). That’s really it. I tell people I love them the same way they love me. They give me motivation the same way I give them motivation. They are the reason I am what I am. UG Digital Mag: A lot of celebrities lose that sense of reality though. It’s cool to speak to someone like yourself. Anytime I’ve seen you involved with things, you seem to have that sense of reality. Cyrene Tankard: I’ve even had people on campus come up for pictures, or ask for advice. This is really me. I love you just as much as you love me. As far as others who lose touch, or looking at those celebrities I’ve formed a relationship with, my favorite would have to be Big Sean. He was super nice, laid back, and super chill. He made me feel super included, and it was all love. When I reach that level, that’s what I want to be. I want to leave people with a feeling. I would love to give money, but it’s nothing better than leaving people with that feeling, or an experience. They’ll remember that for a long time. UG Digital Mag: What other goals and aspirations do you have outside of television? Cyrene Tankard: I have a lot, and am in the process of doing a