Upscale LIVE Magazine Volume 2 - March/ April 2014 - Issue 2 | Page 9

The Date Whisperer is a very intriguing concept. But tell us what makes you qualified to provide this
advice and why should we listen to you?
Outside of the fact that I can read people in their relationships (meaning how or why they respond to
and or exhibit certain behavioral traits), I actually make a lot of sense. Most experts have book smarts
alone with a concentration in Psychology, Sociology and counseling. In addition to educational degrees,
I also have real life experiences to go along with the knowledge that I have learned and applied in my
life. This allows me to know first-hand what someone is going through and confidant in providing background and proven recommendations. I’m an expert because I know what I’m speaking about at any
given moment in which an opportunity is presented to me. The definition of an expert is a person that
holds a degree of skill or knowledge in a certain subject. In the relationship department, I’ve been
through quite a lot and experience can often be the best teacher.
Being a relationship expert/counselor do you have any relationship success stories (omitting names
of course) that you can share.
Yes, we have a 92% conversion rate of women who “wanted their ring” that have signed up for services,
attended our seminars and followed the advice has their ring to date. It’s not an instant result; it’s a
lifestyle change that requires commitment. I will share two stories:
1. One of my girlfriend’s sisters wanted her ring from the guy that she had desired since the first time
they meet. However, he was once the side “dude” that she left her husband for. We knew for sure that
he had trust issues. Who could blame him as he first hand witnessed the affair she had while married.
Through out the relationship he was very controlling for several reasons but mainly because he really
didn’t trust her and felt that he had upgraded her, provided a better lifestyle than what she was used to
having. I told her years prior that she was going to have to leave the relationship and like most people
when I tell them something they think I’m being negative or have no knowledge of what I speak of. She
finally left and it was unexpected. First point. You can’t start something new, until you close unfinished
business. In a conversation, I provided her the steps to get her ring from this man. She became independent and purchased a home on her o ݸ