• Say things you don’t mean.
• Make promises you can’t keep.
• Dig a hole that’s hard to get out of.
• Arouse expectations you can’t fulfill.
• Complicate things by adding sex to an
undeveloped relationship
• Trust your feelings rather than the truth.
• Find it easy to make wrong choices.
• Don’t give the relationship time to grow in a
healthy way.
• Keep looking for more emotional thrills and then
invite the curse of boredom into the
relationship, where everything normal starts to
feel boring.
• End up spending too much time with the one
you’re dating, and excluding your friends.
• Believe in the myth of love at first sight. There’s
no such thing. There’s good chemistry at first
sight, but not love at first sight. People don’t fall
in love, they fall in ditches.
Dangers of going too fast:
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