Problem is he’ s an older guy........ He takes me out to fancy places and e-wallets me cash to buy groceries
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QI’ ve b e e n frie nd s w ith th is girlfor alm ost 10 ye ars now. I am w e w e re p ractica lystuck b y th e h ip. R e ce ntlyw e k ind a starte d to d rift and w e d o not ch i lor talk as ofte n. Sh e also h angs around ne w p e op le or lik e sh e says h e r“ b ud d ys”. W h e ne ve r w e toge th e r sh e constantlyte ls m e h ow I’ ve ch ange d and I’ m no longe r fun to b e around, th ough in a lh one sty I’ m sti lth e sam e. H ow d o Igo around ap p roach ing th is situation? Sh e’ s sti lone of m yclose st frie nd s b ut I’ ve gotte n to a p oint w h e re I’ m annoye d w ith h e r alw ays com p aring m e w ith h e r. W h at sh ould Id o?
AWell sorry to say this but you can’ t be friends with someone for that long and expect to be tight friends or have the same level of commitment to each other till this day. Fights and arguments or even this feeling of being distant to each other is bound to happen. People change, you grow up and want to explore to new things. Why are you such a faithful nun to that relationship? Hold on to something that you know will be fruitful in the end. Maybe you need to meet new people and get yourself“ buddies” as well.
QIne e d to k now h ow I can ge t off p ain m e d s and sle e p ing tab le ts w ith out h aving to go into re h ab. It starte d one d ayw h e n Icould n’ t sle e p b e cause of a h e ad ach e, Itook som e tab le ts to e ase th e p ain and h e lp m e fa lasle e p. But e ve ryd ayafte r th at Icannot sle e p w ith out h aving tak e n any sort of m e d s e ve n sle e p ing tab le ts. H ow can Istop th is?
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Problem is he’ s an older guy........ He takes me out to fancy places and e-wallets me cash to buy groceries
AAre you trying to kill yourself slowly in your sleep? Once you committed yourself to stopping you need to seek professional help. See a therapist or even Dr. who will in most cases put you on a detox programme, to help clean out your system. It will probably be the most difficult but once you are committed to stopping you’ ll be okay kiddo.
QNo one told m e k uti ch ik oro ch ak aw om a, aaah. I’ m curre ntlyin m yse cond ye ar stud ying M e ch anicalEngine e ring p a APK. First ye ar w as ve rych alle nging b ut Igot th rough it. But m anje se cond ye ar iyi h aaa m a1. I faile d th re e m od ule s in th e first se m e ste r m e aning Ih ave to re p e at ne xt ye ar. N ow th is se m e ste r course irik und irova, and I’ m d oub ting I’ lw rite tw o of th e se ve n m od ule s p a e xam. Ge tting m one yfor sch oolis alre ad ya nigh tm are, and h aving to te lth e re ntals th at I’ m gonna h ave anoth e r ye ar ad d e d w i lb e w orse. I’ m th ink ing of just th row ing th e tow e lin. Ple ase h e lp m e out. Quit or carryon?
AQuitting is never an option. We all fail but it’ s not the end of the road. Get up dust yourself and carry on. There are a number of financial aids that can help you with funding. There are bursaries that the University offers for students in need. Or you could apply for a student loan. So my guy carry on with school, you will reap the benefits of the hard work one day.
In the recent months I haven’ t been getting my usual monthly allowance and that has been the most difficult. I hardly have enough cash for my groceries or other essentials that I need. But just over a month ago I met this guy that’ s really cool and actually gets me stuff without me having to ask for them. Problem is he’ s an older guy and by that I mean he could potentially be named a“ BLESSER”. He takes me out to fancy places and e-wallets me cash to buy the groceries I need. Should I stick with him or get rid of him and get help elsewhere? Confused
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