Problem is he ’ s an older guy ........ He takes me out to fancy places and e-wallets me cash to buy groceries
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QI ’ ve b e e n frie nd s w ith th is girlfor alm ost 10 ye ars now . I am w e w e re p ractica lystuck b y th e h ip . R e ce ntlyw e k ind a starte d to d rift and w e d o not ch i lor talk as ofte n . Sh e also h angs around ne w p e op le or lik e sh e says h e r “ b ud d ys ”. W h e ne ve r w e toge th e r sh e constantlyte ls m e h ow I ’ ve ch ange d and I ’ m no longe r fun to b e around , th ough in a lh one sty I ’ m sti lth e sam e . H ow d o Igo around ap p roach ing th is situation ? Sh e ’ s sti lone of m yclose st frie nd s b ut I ’ ve gotte n to a p oint w h e re I ’ m annoye d w ith h e r alw ays com p aring m e w ith h e r . W h at sh ould Id o ?
AWell sorry to say this but you can ’ t be friends with someone for that long and expect to be tight friends or have the same level of commitment to each other till this day . Fights and arguments or even this feeling of being distant to each other is bound to happen . People change , you grow up and want to explore to new things . Why are you such a faithful nun to that relationship ? Hold on to something that you know will be fruitful in the end . Maybe you need to meet new people and get yourself “ buddies ” as well .
QIne e d to k now h ow I can ge t off p ain m e d s and sle e p ing tab le ts w ith out h aving to go into re h ab . It starte d one d ayw h e n Icould n ’ t sle e p b e cause of a h e ad ach e , Itook som e tab le ts to e ase th e p ain and h e lp m e fa lasle e p . But e ve ryd ayafte r th at Icannot sle e p w ith out h aving tak e n any sort of m e d s e ve n sle e p ing tab le ts . H ow can Istop th is ?
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Problem is he ’ s an older guy ........ He takes me out to fancy places and e-wallets me cash to buy groceries
AAre you trying to kill yourself slowly in your sleep ? Once you committed yourself to stopping you need to seek professional help . See a therapist or even Dr . who will in most cases put you on a detox programme , to help clean out your system . It will probably be the most difficult but once you are committed to stopping you ’ ll be okay kiddo .
QNo one told m e k uti ch ik oro ch ak aw om a , aaah . I ’ m curre ntlyin m yse cond ye ar stud ying M e ch anicalEngine e ring p a APK . First ye ar w as ve rych alle nging b ut Igot th rough it . But m anje se cond ye ar iyi h aaa m a1 . I faile d th re e m od ule s in th e first se m e ste r m e aning Ih ave to re p e at ne xt ye ar . N ow th is se m e ste r course irik und irova , and I ’ m d oub ting I ’ lw rite tw o of th e se ve n m od ule s p a e xam . Ge tting m one yfor sch oolis alre ad ya nigh tm are , and h aving to te lth e re ntals th at I ’ m gonna h ave anoth e r ye ar ad d e d w i lb e w orse . I ’ m th ink ing of just th row ing th e tow e lin . Ple ase h e lp m e out . Quit or carryon ?
AQuitting is never an option . We all fail but it ’ s not the end of the road . Get up dust yourself and carry on . There are a number of financial aids that can help you with funding . There are bursaries that the University offers for students in need . Or you could apply for a student loan . So my guy carry on with school , you will reap the benefits of the hard work one day .
In the recent months I haven ’ t been getting my usual monthly allowance and that has been the most difficult . I hardly have enough cash for my groceries or other essentials that I need . But just over a month ago I met this guy that ’ s really cool and actually gets me stuff without me having to ask for them . Problem is he ’ s an older guy and by that I mean he could potentially be named a “ BLESSER ”. He takes me out to fancy places and e-wallets me cash to buy the groceries I need . Should I stick with him or get rid of him and get help elsewhere ? Confused
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