ASK A
Do you enjoy spending time with your partner's relatives and friends? Why or why not?
I'm uncomfortable spending time with my boyfriend's family because none of them really speak english. They mostly speak spanish and I don't understand them. I've only been to his house twice since we've been dating and when I went there I tried to avoid his parents. Also when I went to his family party, none of his relatives talked to me because they didn’t understand me. I barely hang out with his friends but when I do, its always awkward because they never talk to me.
A-- Spending time with your partner is fun and all but when it comes to spending time with your love one’ family and friends, you may feel iffy at first. This is completely normal. As time passes and the more time you spend with your partner’s family and friends, they will soon feel like your own family and friends.
Would you ever get revenge if a guy breaks up with you?
I don't believe in getting revenge if a boyfriend breaks your heart. It is his loss, and you will probably be better without him. The best revenge is no revenge and is to just keep moving on with your life and show him how happy you are without him. You'll eventually move on and be with someone who probably makes you 100 times happier than that ex ever did.
A-- Although getting revenge back at a guy if he breaks your heart seems civil, you should be the bigger person and let karma do its job. Just breath and relax in the meantime and find out how you can overcome the obstacle, that may feel like its the end of the world, but really in reality is just a new beginning in your love life.
Would you consider your partner your best friend? Give an example of when he/she was there to be your best friend?
My boyfriend is my best friend. When you have a boyfriend you are stuck talking to him all the time so you end up telling them everything especially when you begin to trust him. Whether it's school problems, family problems, or friendship problems he knows them all. I talk about people in my school to him all the time so it's great because he doesn't know them.
A--- Your best friend is a person who you tell everything to. Your best friend is one you can always trust (or else should trust). Your boyfriend is someone who knows you for your rights and wrong, your perfections and imperfections; therefore should be the one you trust.
***These questions have been answered by TYWLS students in relationships.