Dear Miss Lovelace,
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Squirting. Is it real or not because I’ m breaking my head here, Miss Lovelace. I’ ve been watching You- Tube tutorials for a whole month and I still can’ t make it happen. I have tried with several girls using several tactics. Please help or tell me it’ s fake so I can go on with my life.( Timothy, 25)
Hi! First of all, don’ t get stressed, squirting is real. Some professionals in the subject admit that not all women are capable of doing it. Personally I have never been able to squirt, and many have tried to make me. Squirting is produced by the stimulation of what we know as the G-spot or female prostate( rough area behind the pubic bone). The liquid shot in squirting is a great amount of ejaculatory fluid, normally with a lot of pressure, but it sometimes comes as a thick white liquid. Squirting and orgasms don’ t necessarily come together, sometimes it happens sometimes it doesn’ t. If you want to know more about it, I recommend you look for Deborah Sundahl, a sex educator who has initiated many women in the art of squirting. Anyway I leave the following tips:
1) The girl must be lying in bed with her legs spread open in a comfortable position. Stimulate her clit to fill it with blood so you can touch it. In order to do that I recommend the use of water based lubricants since this type does not affect women’ s skin.
2) Introduce your middle and right fingers with your hand facing upwards, i. e. facing the belly button. Do not stick your finger completely in because the G-spot is only a couple of centimetres deep, to be exact it is right at the back of the pubic bone. Extra tip: You recognize the G-spot because when you move your fingers frontward, you will feel a curved area. As you press that area you feel the pubic bone right on top and you feel like urinating.
3) You must make the G-spot swollen until it becomes slightly bigger than an almond. You get that by massaging it; I recommend you to softly press with your fingers in circular movements. Gradually you can increase the speed.
4) Ask her to do Kegel exercises, i. e. contracting and relaxing the pelvic muscles as you play.
5) Continue to stimulate the G-spot, rotate, press, massage, play with your fingers... As she is getting excited, lift up her hips and press her butt. Keep on doing so and repeat these movements. Extra tip: put a pillow or a cushion under her butt.
6) To finish up, take your fingers out quickly and push them in again right away; she must be still contracting her buttocks and her hips up. Press upwards with circular movements over the labia majora or outer lips that almost cover the clit; you can also manually stimulate the external clit. She must feel like wanting to piss and she just has to let it flow; if that feeling fades you keep massaging.
Good luck for next time!
How do I tell my girlfriend to occasionally put a finger up my ass when she’ s blowing me, without sounding like a complete fag? Wait, am I a fag? Thanks.( Alex, 28)
Hi Alex! Lol don’ t feel gay for that, it is completely normal you want your girlfriend to put a finger up your ass because a man’ s G-spot is located precisely there, up the ass.
Feel free to ask her and be confident about it, you can ask her to start stimulating the area between the ass and the balls. Before putting the finger in you can ask her to lick and massage it, good lubrication is very important! Once inside, rather than in and out, it is better to move the finger up and down, especially for starters. That way she would directly stimulate your prostate( the actual male G-spot) and you will find it extremely pleasant! If your girlfriend rejects the idea, you can threaten to not give her cunnilingus, I assure you she will change her mind! Good luck and don’ t be shy! How long do I have to wait after sex before falling asleep?( Jessica, 27)
Hi Jessica! Lol that question is funny; to be honest I think you can fall asleep whenever you want! But make sure you are not at his place if it is a one night stand! For me personally it’ s very normal that I fall asleep, especially if I’ m kind of tired and I’ ve
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