Agony Aunt
Dear Tongue-Tied,
As far as people speaking it at school, you’re going to understand more and more of what they’re saying as time goes on. For now, try picking up on some of the simple words you’ve already learned. Even knowing a few words can help you get an idea of the general topic of conversation. Your friends would probably feel terrible if they knew you felt excluded by their conversation. When you’re fluent in a language its easy to forget that someone else might not understand it. If you throw in an English comment or two, they’ll be reminded that you don’t speak Italian (yet!) and chances are the language of the conversation will flip to English.
Here’s another key: don’t be afraid to speak in Italian! Whenever you’re out and about, it’s important to try and speak Italian. For language learning purposes, it’s the best practice possible. As a side benefit, when a patron knows you’re actively trying to speak his or her language instead of forcing them to speak yours, he or she is more likely to give you better service (and who can blame them). If someone speaks back to you in English, don’t be discouraged. Try to continue speaking to them in Italian.
So, tongue tied, here are my parting bits of advice: work hard and have patience. The harder you work in Italian class, the better you’ll be at Italian. The same goes for speaking it as much as possible outside of school. It may seem like it’s taking a while, but be patient and know you’re improving every day. Have confidence in yourself—you CAN do this!
Agony Aunt