1. You don't feel that gut wrenching pain in your tummy every time you hear your ex-partners name or see their face.
When the break up first occurs hearing their name or even seeing the exes number can make you feel like screaming or crying . Depending on how bad the break up was. Slowly this will go away. You have to work on building you. Remember why you broke up in the first place and if that doesn't work . Whenever you think about your ex, erase the thoughts with happy ones or find something to do. Sitting and wishing they were there isn't going to make it happen. So spend your free time doing something more constructive for YOU.
2. Be Okay with the breakup .
Being okay doesn't mean that you don't still hate your ex, or thinking about what they did to you and your feelings doesn't matter . What it does mean is move on. Know that your relationship is over and that you're okay with that. The biggest part of moving on is forgiving your ex and forgiving yourself . Holding onto old emotions is not healthy and leave you stuck in emotional limbo. It can cause you to hate people you don't even know ...like the exes next . Go into the next relationship baggage free and let go.
3.Can you see yourself with someone new ?
If the very thought of talking to someone new still makes you sick to your stomach, it is probably not the time to go looking for a new boo. You have to be completely healed from the previous relationship. Still checking you exes profile pages, IMVU profile card for changes / room stalking and making comments on Pulse means you're not ready to bring another person into your life as a partner.
4. Can you see your Ex with someone new ?
As stated above, if the thought of your ex with someone new sends you into a frenzy ,that makes you contact the possible new partner and make threats or tell lies , you are not ready. You have to work on # 2 a little more before you are ready to step out into the limelight with a new Bae.
5. Go outside and play.
When you are truly ready to find a new mate , you'll know . You social appearances will increase and you'll feel more comfortable attending with your single status. Your confidence will allow you to flirt with just the right person and your new found confidence will shine through. When you are ready to move on both you and all your new possibles will know it !
Break Ups are a part of life real and IMVU, but you can move on to find happiness. If you are single and loving it ,keep doing you . The time will come when you'll be changing the status on your profile card :) Love is in the Air ....
JahZii- Editor In Chief ~ Trill Couture Magazine