TREND Fall 2016 | Page 23

erflies Voices of Tennessee PEARS Najah just began middle school this fall, which was a huge change from her small home-like elementary school. She was so excited for her first day, and it was a success and thus far, she has adjusted well. Najah can be very timid despite her usual confidence at times; so as parents we encourage her to voice her concerns when she cannot hear or is uncomfortable about a certain situation. What she has to say is important. From a very young age, we wanted her to embrace her uniqueness, and realize that she can do anything her peers can do with the occasional creative modification. We have encouraged any and all interests in extracurricular activities despite her differences. We wanted Najah to feel comfortable around her peers, as this will be her world as a young adult. Now a big sister to three siblings, she is an awesome role model for them and an A&B Honor Roll student. We know that Najah will always have the innate ability and resources to overcome any obstacles. In her own words, “I can do anything and everything anyone else can do. I DON’T SWEAT IT.” While we advocate for Najah, that role will diminish as we allow her to spread her wings and fly high! We just try to keep steady on the path. Her love for life is like no other and the miracle of Najah has brought us new adventures every day. We are rooted in our spirit and have the support from family, friends, and God. She’s our daughter! Natalie Carlise serves as a Parent Guide with Family Voices of Tennessee PEARS. Contact her at [email protected] Recommended Reading Backgrounder: Creating Opportunities for Tennesseans Birth to 21 who are Deaf, Hard of Hearing, and DeafBlind