Treasure Magazine
Character simply put is the set of qualities that make somebody or something distinctive , especially somebody ’ s qualities of mind and feeling . It starts with just an action , grows into a habit and finally turns out to become a character . Whereas Charisma is the ability to inspire , enthusiasm , interest , or affection in others by means of personal charm or influence . Everybody may possess charisma but we can ’ t clearly say everybody has the positive character . Character in terms of personal perspective and in terms relating with people are necessities that must be well built in the life of every individual that must be successful .
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Personal perspective : this aspect covers everything that has to do with the behavior and conduct of an individual in such a way that he or she can be identified with such traits . Personal perspective of character includes eating habits , neatness , discipline , diligence and mindsets amongst others . Poor eating habits , carelessness , lack of diligence and wrong mindsets has contributed greatly to the setbacks in the life of so many in recent days . A guy once told me he was breaking up with his fiancée simply because he felt the lady was poor in cleanliness . We overlook so many “ basics ” that eventually turns out to become the little foxes that spoil the vine in our lives . I see no reason why a young lady should be poor in cooking and other house chores knowing so well that these are basics she should have developed while growing up . You like it or not they are so many things you must develop yourself “ to do ” and “ not do ”. Time management is part of the components of good character and it ’ s built over time just like every other components of character . Relating with People ; this aspect of character deals with the way an individual relates with people and not just him or herself . From the interview story I earlier narrated you would discover that the guy was deficient in the aspect of character that pertains to relating with people . You may have developed all the best of personal character in good measure but you must also build the way you relate with people well . Poor talking habits and poor socializing habits could end up terminating all the prospects of your charisma if you don ’ t work on them . Your ability to accommodate the excesses of people as well as speaking politely and correctly is part of the attributes of the good character that you must develop .
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Having explained in a sketchy form , what character is all about you must know that the benefits of positive character over charisma includes ’