Timeless March 2020 | Page 39

De-clutter and organize home to decrease fall risks, alleviate anxiety W By Julie Webb Contributing columnist ho has a difficult time getting rid of the clutter? Me!!! I will be the first one to raise my hand and admit my struggle! Accumulating clutter is sneaky and creeps up over time. Before you know it, you’re staring at a mess and don’t know how to get rid of it all. Figuring out how to clear up the clutter and get organized can be difficult for anyone. But a cluttered home for an older adult can be serious issue. I am sentimental. Whether it’s a work of art created by my child in third grade or a special dish my Nanny always served her banana pudding out of I hold those things dear. They are keepsakes and represent beautiful memories for me. There are many reasons clutter begins to accumulate, and those reasons can often help us to under- stand the cause and hopefully help to begin finding a solution. Fear, changes in health, loneliness, fatigue, and even the need to conserve can all lead to a cluttered home. Living with clutter will cause anxiety, stress, guilt and embarrassment. Those same reasons will keep someone from asking for the help they need to get it under control. Speaking from firsthand experience the best thing you can do is be honest. Be honest with yourself and be honest with a trusted relative or friend. Opening up about my own struggle was so incredibly hard but also freed me to get help. Clutter can accumulate anywhere. In the kitchen extra or unused pots and pans can create a fall risk. Expired and old food can lead to food poisoning and malnutrition. Piles of mail could lead to economic prob- lems if bills become lost. Bathroom cabinets filled with unused or expired medications are extremely hazardous and unused make- up can lead to infections. Bedrooms can with too many clothes and shoes lead to confusion and disorganization. Papers piled up are a fire hazard. Clutter on stairs could cause a serious fall and basements if not watched properly can attract mold, mildew and rodents. If you notice any of these characteristics, then clutter could be creeping up on your loved one. 1. Piles of papers, mail and unpaid bills. 2. Frustration trying to organize. 3. Compulsive shopping. 4. Difficulty deciding whether to discard items. 5. Loneliness. The first thing to do is to make a plan. And stick with it! The problem wasn’t created overnight, and it won’t be solved overnight either. I suggest a three- step solution. You need a bin for items to keep, a bin for items you’ll donate to charity and one for trash. If you are helping a loved one through this process, try to stay positive and be an encouragement. To you it seems like “junk” but to that loved one Webb the possession they are letting go of could hold strong feelings. Allow them to make choices. If they have twelve mixing bowls let your loved one choose the three, they want to keep. If magazines are piled up maybe they could be donated to an art class. If you are boxing up items to keep, list items on the outside of the box. Also remember just because they aren’t willing to let go today doesn’t mean they won’t be in the future. De-cluttering and organizing is a process that will lead to a better life for everyone. For seniors it’s a matter of health and safety. For more information, visit www. homeinstead.com • Julie Webb is Home Care consultant for Home Instead Senior Care. •39