3. Guard your heart and words.
An important step in keeping your physical purity is guarding your emotional purity. Look out for the best interests of your boyfriend. Guard his heart too. Don’t talk about anything that could cause you both to compromise your physical purity. Watch how much you talk about certain things that could stir up feelings or emotions that could be strong enough to push you to cross physical lines
4. Keep God at the center.
If God was standing with you and your boyfriend, how comfortable would you be doing certain things? Keep in mind that God is always with you and strive to keep Him at the focus of your entire relationship. Focus on Christ and the physical side of things won’t be as strong. Study your Bible together, memorize verses to encourage one another, go to Bible studies as a couple. Invest in your relationship with God first.
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studies as a couple. Invest in your relationship with God first.
Guarding your physical purity isn’t always easy, but the rewards are worth it.
If you have made mistakes in past relationships or even in your current relationship with your physical purity goals, I want you to know that you’re not alone and that you’re also made new. Every morning is a brand new start and by God’s grace His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22).
Your mistakes do not define you in any way. Today is a brand new day that you can start over. You are defined by the love God has for you, so walk in that freedom today. Make new goals today and start over again.
It’s never too late to start again