I’m sure that most women have found themselves trying to converse with a man who may as well be at the other end of the cosmos? Distant as distant gets, the reason being he will not give service, he will not give his energy to you. The male will go to his man cave to top up his significant battery, only then when is reserves are full can you expect him to allow a measured “discharge” of energy.
If this has baffled you for ages now you know, the slimmer the person the more distant it gets, and just because that person could be sitting beside you does not mean they are “with” you.
The slim have far stronger boundaries and don’t allow that to be breached without very good reason, you may notice a resilient “take it or leave it” attitude from them. The reason for this is certainty, the slim are more certain of their identity and as a result they defend it more.
Even with passive resistance such as non-compliance regardless of what they have said and offered to do for you, because on the surface they may be well intended but at core it is self-preservation of reserves that count.
Right or wrong, good or bad have nothing to do with certainty, you could be the meanest person on earth but if you’re certain of yourself that’s all that counts. Being good, dutiful and positive counts for nothing if you are not certain, push a good man and a bad man off the top of a 10 storey building and both will die, the universe doesn’t make allowances for the good man.
So here the point, those that give too much service to others, sacrifice their own significance and give all their reserves away gain no favour from the universe.
Women give far more service then men and as a result gain more fat deposits.
To think like a slim person doesn’t require that you abandon the beautiful act of sacrifice and service to become a ruthless selfish monster, it means that you need to be aware of your precious reserves, and that holding on to them is also spiritual act because you keep your cup full ( you are a liability with an empty cup).
It requires that you think more of your own significance and overcome the guilt of placing yourself at the front of the queue on occasion.