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CCR CSR | A Study on Migrant Workers with Left-behind Children in China | August 2013 5. Young workers and their expectations on parenthood CCR CSR | A Study on Migrant Workers with Left-behind Children in China | August 2013 more about being good parents in the future. As such, it is likely that when the younger generation is faced with a conflict between raising children and work, they will put the well-being of children first. When selecting employers, young workers mostly focused on career development, and few considered potential family well-being. However more than 70% felt they would make good parents in the future. This study found that young migrant workers had higher awareness about the importance of children’s need for nurturing love and care, healthy emotional development, and ability to develop good social skills. Moreover, almost all young workers thought that children should be raised by their parents, in order to help them cultivate healthy values (72%), support their comprehensive development (75%), and help their children’s social integration (49%). Young workers’ concerns about becoming future parents are similar to those of migrant workers who already have children. Their main fears are: • job insecurity and lack of a stable environment for children (80%) • lack of appropriate guardians and parenting experience (44%) • the high cost of upbringing (43%) “If I have children, I will take them with me, because I have experienced that kind of unhappiness,” says Qin Huan, 16, a young worker with many years of experience as a left-behind child. “Although I haven’t thought about how to solve the difficulties involved, I will take them with me. I have friends and I will discuss this with. They won’t leave their children at home either; we will take them with us and be part of their education." Interviews such as the one above show the influence of past experience on the new generation of migrant workers. Many of the young workers have experienced being migrant and left-behind children, and they are keenly aware of the pain caused by separation. When comparing the economic gains from migration, with the alienation and emotional hurt involved, majority care 40 41