TheBeyondWoman Magazine Issue#2 | Page 18

… (laughter) TBWM: I was talking with a friend who lives in Canada and she mentioned that after a year of trying and being unable to conceive you are considered infertile. Is that the case here too? What if it is just not the right time? Dr Dacosta: The truth is that if a couple is having unprotected regular intercourse for over 1 year without conceiving they are considered infertile and that is only if they are less than 35 years. If they are between 35 and 40 then we would say 6 months, and over 40 that is reduced to 3 months. TBWM: I am led to ask this question, having listened…do you think all of this, meaning IVF is playing God? Dr Dacosta: Playing God…No…look at it, initially when we were placed on the earth, we used to walk to everywhere we had to go to. By creating motor vehicles and aeroplanes, did anyone ask if we were playing God? TBWM: I agree but, I ask the question because there are some persons out there who will have the opinion that this type of intervention is playing with nature. What is your response to them? Dr DaCosta: I will tell them- we have no control over the fertilisation process (fertilising the egg) that is up to God. What we do here is help couples overcome the obstacles that are present be