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to be benign. Nine years later during a self-ex- amination she discovered another lump which when tested this time turned out to be stage 2 can- cer. This happened in November 1999. Sandra ed- ucated herself on the disease and armed with the information she needed, she did surgery - a par- tial radical mastectomy (removing her breast). She then went through the dreaded process of chemother- apy and radiation. Through it all she found something that was far greater than cancer and its prognosis – and that was the increased appreciation of LIVING daily. Today, Sandra does not pretend that her journey has been easy; she was very frank and transparent as she spoke about the challenges, especially when she has to deal with members of the opposite sex. She spoke of feeling almost afraid to share herself and having to ask herself - at what point do I tell them I have only one breast - the question of acceptance was not easily answered then and it’s still not easy even now. time with family or spending time