THE YOUTHING MAGAZINE the SUM-IT-UP issue | Page 18

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP
we are adults, we can solve issues peacefully, and
SPEAKING
OUT SAVES A
RELATIONSHIP
BY JOY ANGELA KYALO
It has occurred to me that most people don't know
how to go about it when they are on disagreement
with their significant other.
well this is an open discussion about how people
should solve their issues instead of hurting each
other in the process.
Going silent could seem the easiest way,but I think
its best if both of you come to an agreement in
order to save your relationship. Being silent doesn't
help in anything, it just makes matters worse.
when two people who are in a relationship argue,its
best to have a sit down and talk it out. surely, you
wouldn't want to loose another person because of
something that can be solved now, would you?
communication should be key. Tell your partner
what you don't like and what you like, speak out
too. listen to each other and share your views
about certain issues,solve things like mature grown
people.
Love is not easy, but what's hard is making your
partner suffer just because you're making it hard
for them to speak to you after an argument. No
one is perfect. I don't think you'll be a happy person
or rather feel good if your partner is crying and
praying to God for healing because of you.
I don't have much today but never go to sleep when
you haven't solved issues with your significant
other. you never know what tomorrow has for you,
life is short.
"Going silent could seem the
easiest way,but I think its best if
both of you come to an agreement
in order to save your
relationship."