The Whole You October 2016 | Page 16

is it really all about? What really matters? I recall only 10 months ago when I left to travel to Bali, and the freedom that I experienced when I got there, because I was really embracing and living a simple life. Not wanting for much, carrying a few clothes and some personal items. I was living in a room in which the door wouldn't even close properly and yet I was happy. Happy to be out of the rat race of life! Food was cheap, the weather was hot, the people, both tourists and locals, expressed such authentic gratitude and appreciation it was as if my soul over there was given a makeover and told to just "live and be free". And anyone I came into contact with, that's exactly what we all did. And yet, here I am 10 months later all caught up in the rat race of life once again. I've lived simple and happy and although it may not have been in this country why can't I seem to do it as easy here in Calgary? So instead of making it about the house, the car, and the clothes, as I move forward into this next chapter of my life, I am going to choose to make it about the love I have in and around my life. Choose to be authentic with the all the great people I have in my life and then just focus on the value I can bring to the world and all the people I cross paths with. The size of my house isn’t important or the cost of the things in it. What matters is how much love I have around me; and that is totally free! We really don't need much if we dig deep and look at what actually matters in our hearts and by extension, to what truly makes you happy and brings you joy. So to answer my question “what's it all about?”, I guess it's about whatever you want it to be. But most of all for me, it's about being in love and being happy. Anything and everything I can do, or need to do, to keep being and having those two things I will!