The Well Magazine Fall/Winter 2015 | Page 11

Body How has your faith influenced your journey? You better know that it was God that helped me on this journey. You have to have faith and believe in a higher power to fight off the devil of food. I mean everywhere you go there is some sale on foods that are killing us off quickly. And we fall for it every time. Don’t get me wrong there are times when I enjoy some things that are not good for me but that is not very often. When you know better you do better. The easy way to think about it for me now is that it is suicide. Whether fast or slow, it is still suicide. How has pain in your life helped you to find and fulfill your purpose? Knowing how it felt to be that kid that had to deal with the other kids saying mean things to and about me. It just makes me want to be one that can help others that are or will have to go through it to hopefully not have to endure the pain. The truth is what I went through is nothing compared to what the kids of today are having to deal with. It’s funny we never really look at the things our kids are having to deal with at school because of the way we let them eat and the things we give them to save time . But we are not saving their lives. We are more like shortening their lives. I went to a regional success training with the company I now work with, Visalus. I was able to hear the stories of kids that had went through being bullied and had to go through selfesteem issues for being overweight. The mission and the purpose for my life—my “Why”— became very clear as I cried when they were telling their stories. They say your “Why” will make you cry. Which hit me hard to because I have a young one at home which is an even greater “Why” because I do not want her to have to go through some of the things I had to go through. What was the most difficult part of losing the weight? The most difficult part of losing weight is being around people that are not on the same page as you are on at all times. This is not something that most people can stay with for a long time. In most cases people will start on the right track and then jump off shortly after they start. Believe me, I am not excluding myself for I have done the same many times. It just was this last time I was not giving up because I had too much to lose—my life. What is the best advice you received on your weight loss journey? What advice would you give to someone starting their own journey to better health? The best advise I received was to not to try to do it all the time and that if you were going to be successful at this you were going to have to take time to have a cheat meal and enjoy yourself. Now make sure you are reading that right. I said a cheat meal, not a cheat day. I would advise someone starting their own journey to make sure that they are picking something that they can stick with or be able to transition into something that will help them to maintain. You have to have faith and believe in a higher power to fight off the devil of food. Why is it important to reach out to your community? This i ́